Worst year of my life, by far.

Wait, so you had a big party at your house that had drugs and you went to sleep while it was raging?

It does suck to be you but it also does sound like it was your fault (unless you had a roommate or something co-hosting the party). I've had around 50-100 parties and I always make sure I'm the last one awake.
 


If you have legit depression GET YOURSELF SOME HELP. Depression is a real condition, you don't just "make yourself feel better". Your ability to be successful will be GREATLY improved if you get treatment.

Imagine someone with poor eyesight being told to just try harder to see instead of getting glasses. Thats whats like for people who have mental health issues not getting treatment.
 
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just have a counsellor who can sit and listen to you can make a whole heap of change.

or even us faggots here
 
nickster said:
So what you are saying is if you throw a party you expect your life to be fucked. What the fuck is a party without alcohol and/or drugs for a young 20 something person????
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Yes, that is exactly what I was saying. Alcohol and drugs are for people who want to get stupid (i.e. getting drunk, overdosed, etc). Just because other 20-something do it, it doesn't mean you should do the same.

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The OP is a young guy himself and it was just a party, give me a fucking break and don't be so sanctamoneous. I am sure you have done MUCH worse shit in your life than throw a party where some of your friends may or may not be under the age of 21.
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I have been drunk once. And I realized how stupid I was. I stopped heavy drinking, and only drink casually now. Somewhere along your life, you've gotta decide whether you want to get stupid or get rich.

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The OP didn't deserve what happened to him. Sure a slap on the wrist for allowing under-agers drink in his house (21 is a stupid age anyway, most countries it's 18 and even then most kids drink way before that anyway).
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Well, if you host party like that, the probability of this happening is pretty good. So don't kid yourself that the OP doesn't deserve it. He just has to man up and pick his own shit and start hustling. And for the rest of his fucking life, I hope he learns from his experience never to get stupid ever again.
 
So you gonna link to the article for proof or should we all take this on face value? If it's true, I feel terrible for you (if in fact it all went down the way you say it did) but to be perfectly honest with you, it would really help your case if you at least linked to the article and pointed out the inconsistencies. Own the shit and move on. if it is, in fact, true. :p
 
Wicked Ice said:
I have been drunk once. And I realized how stupid I was. I stopped heavy drinking, and only drink casually now. Somewhere along your life, you've gotta decide whether you want to get stupid or get rich.
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As if people who are rich , dont get drunk from time to time. You can forget about the getting rich part, since you are stupid anw.
 
Wicked Ice said:
Yes, that is exactly what I was saying. Alcohol and drugs are for people who want to get stupid (i.e. getting drunk, overdosed, etc). Just because other 20-something do it, it doesn't mean you should do the same.



I have been drunk once. And I realized how stupid I was. I stopped heavy drinking, and only drink casually now. Somewhere along your life, you've gotta decide whether you want to get stupid or get rich.



Well, if you host party like that, the probability of this happening is pretty good. So don't kid yourself that the OP doesn't deserve it. He just has to man up and pick his own shit and start hustling. And for the rest of his fucking life, I hope he learns from his experience never to get stupid ever again.
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I would be interested in knowing how old you are and what country you live in. As you views seem to indicate that you are an Islamic 14 year old.

The probability of someone dying when you throw a party with alcohol and drugs is very low, and the fact that you think that its not means you are/haven't been invited to many parties in your life.

Also it depends on what drugs we are talking about here. The guy bought his own methadone, but I am assuming with the rest we are only talking some weed and maybe a bit of coke or ecstasy, not heroin or crack. If this is the case then I am pretty sure the articles would have made more out of it than just use the loose term "narcotics" (marijuana is not actually a narcotic).

This is not a normal outcome for a party (read NORMAL party) and the OP was just very unfortunate. It hasn't & shouldn't really teach him a lesson, other than life sometimes isn't fair.
 
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As if people who are rich , dont get drunk from time to time. You can forget about the getting rich part, since you are stupid anw.
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LOL. Yea right, what do I know... I am stupid anywayyyyy...

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nickster said:
I would be interested in knowing how old you are and what country you live in. As you views seem to indicate that you are an Islamic 14 year old.

The probability of someone dying when you throw a party with alcohol and drugs is very low, and the fact that you think that its not means you are/haven't been invited to many parties in your life.

Also it depends on what drugs we are talking about here. The guy bought his own methadone, but I am assuming with the rest we are only talking some weed and maybe a bit of coke or ecstasy, not heroin or crack. If this is the case then I am pretty sure the articles would have made more out of it than just use the loose term "narcotics" (marijuana is not actually a narcotic).

This is not a normal outcome for a party (read NORMAL party) and the OP was just very unfortunate. It hasn't & shouldn't really teach him a lesson, other than life sometimes isn't fair.
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I am not Islamic cunt. 29 years old. Singapore. I had been drinking in my early 20s, and I realized it didn't help me to reach my goals. Reading Gene Simmons book Sex Money Kiss was the trigger point.
 
nickster said:
Also it depends on what drugs we are talking about here. The guy bought his own methadone, but I am assuming with the rest we are only talking some weed and maybe a bit of coke or ecstasy, not heroin or crack. If this is the case then I am pretty sure the articles would have made more out of it than just use the loose term "narcotics" (marijuana is not actually a narcotic).
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Trace amounts of cannabinoids, the 2 methadone pills, as well as a selection of benzos, a sleeper or 2, and a muscle relaxant. I couldn't see any stimulants in there, just sounded like someone who'd developed a heroine/methadone addiction.
 
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Trace amounts of cannabinoids, the 2 methadone pills, as well as a selection of benzos, a sleeper or 2, and a muscle relaxant. I couldn't see any stimulants in there, just sounded like someone who'd developed a heroine/methadone addiction.
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No I meant at the party (i.e. apart from that guy).
 
OP one thing ive learned about IM is if you know what you're doing you'll fall and climb back to the top with some hustle. No point in being depressed over some idiot that couldn't keep his shit together. Keep working for yourself and bust your ass, you may find this was the best thing that could have happened to you.
 
KC1989 said:
OP one thing ive learned about IM is if you know what you're doing you'll fall and climb back to the top with some hustle. No point in being depressed over some idiot that couldn't keep his shit together. Keep working for yourself and bust your ass, you may find this was the best thing that could have happened to you.
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I like this
 
guerilla said:
When we first met up on AIM, you represented yourself very different from how you rep yourself in this thread.

I still don't know if you're a shared account, or one guy with a complex story, or a guy who makes up a lot of drama.

You're really bright, and I'd love to work with more bright people, but it sounds to me like you're having trouble making good decisions, and unfortunately are one of those guys who pays full price in consequences.

Here is an idea. Sell your house. Then get some low wage jobs to pay for you to start your own business. Do your own thing. There are thousands of people doing business online and no one does a personal check on them.

Or you can keep holding on to things you can't afford, feeling like a bitch because shit went sideways and feeling isolated because other people don't want to work with you.

Some advice, stop making excuses for yourself and indulging yourself in a victim narrative. Nothing is going to get better until YOU make it better.

And that might take awhile, so put on your big boy pants and suck it up. Be a man.

TL;DR

Stop telling a narrative of failure. Write a narrative of success.
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This is pretty much exactly what I was going to say.

When it rains, it pours.

It's all about how you respond to it. You'll figure it out.
 
Wicked Ice said:
Yes, that is exactly what I was saying. Alcohol and drugs are for people who want to get stupid (i.e. getting drunk, overdosed, etc). Just because other 20-something do it, it doesn't mean you should do the same.



I have been drunk once. And I realized how stupid I was. I stopped heavy drinking, and only drink casually now. Somewhere along your life, you've gotta decide whether you want to get stupid or get rich.



Well, if you host party like that, the probability of this happening is pretty good. So don't kid yourself that the OP doesn't deserve it. He just has to man up and pick his own shit and start hustling. And for the rest of his fucking life, I hope he learns from his experience never to get stupid ever again.
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Right because getting drunk automatically means you can't get rich. Oh yeah, all parties with alcohol include heavy drugs too.
 
OP sorry about the troubles, I do agree with alot of the guys here. You still have your health and once that is gone you realize how small ALL other problems really are. You're young too, you'll be alright.
 
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