Any Childfree by Choice Here?
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I don't know, recently turned 23 and I'm just not interested in having kids at ALL. Fuck, I don't even want a serious relationship at the moment.. I also have a friend who got a girl pregnant, she had the kid, and now they fucking hate eachother. He is stuck with the kid, probably not gonna be in the kid's life too often, and yeah, that shit has to suck really bad.
Thankfully the bad choices I've made so far in life haven't been irreversible. Oh yeah, and I ALWAYS wear a condom (my own, so I know its not been fucked with - call me paranoid or whatever, but at least I won't be the one with a child I don't want with a woman I can't fucking stand 9 months later) and will continue to do so.
For now, fuck kids and relationships - GRIND HARD GET $$$ FUCK 19 YEAR OLDS! (With a condom on, my own condom at that cause I don't trust these hoes)
Thankfully the bad choices I've made so far in life haven't been irreversible. Oh yeah, and I ALWAYS wear a condom (my own, so I know its not been fucked with - call me paranoid or whatever, but at least I won't be the one with a child I don't want with a woman I can't fucking stand 9 months later) and will continue to do so.
For now, fuck kids and relationships - GRIND HARD GET $$$ FUCK 19 YEAR OLDS! (With a condom on, my own condom at that cause I don't trust these hoes)
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It's ALL biological, natures course...
People who have kids, RARELY say they regret it, because their brains are pumping out a fuck TON of chemicals to bond with their child. They start shifting their purpose in the world towards raising their kids to live on their own... It becomes one of the ultimate rewards in life for them. I have asked older adults this over and over, and it's the same general belief every time among those who have had children.
We were meant to reproduce, it's natural. Nothing wrong with having kids..
People without kids don't often understand this concept. (Just saying)
With that said, it's perfectly fine to NOT have kids, it's anyone's choice. Do what you want, lol.
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But here's the deal...
If you're into psychology as much as I am, you'll know there are certain age groups we all fall into. From the moment were born to the day we die of old age.
Nature's course of time will slowly push you towards having kids.
We are influenced so much by society and acceptance of the people around us.
I'm just saying it's easy to say "no kids" in your 20's, and but you'll find yourself having a very hard time in your "30's".
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Anyways... (No I don't have kids, just dropping truth bombs)
People who have kids, RARELY say they regret it, because their brains are pumping out a fuck TON of chemicals to bond with their child. They start shifting their purpose in the world towards raising their kids to live on their own... It becomes one of the ultimate rewards in life for them. I have asked older adults this over and over, and it's the same general belief every time among those who have had children.
We were meant to reproduce, it's natural. Nothing wrong with having kids..
People without kids don't often understand this concept. (Just saying)
With that said, it's perfectly fine to NOT have kids, it's anyone's choice. Do what you want, lol.
.....
But here's the deal...
If you're into psychology as much as I am, you'll know there are certain age groups we all fall into. From the moment were born to the day we die of old age.
Nature's course of time will slowly push you towards having kids.
We are influenced so much by society and acceptance of the people around us.
I'm just saying it's easy to say "no kids" in your 20's, and but you'll find yourself having a very hard time in your "30's".
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Anyways... (No I don't have kids, just dropping truth bombs)
Something to consider. When you're old and infirm, having someone to be your advocate and make sure you're not shipped off to old folks home hell is a good idea. This is one thing kids are good for, provided you don't raise a bunch of shits.
I actually wholeheartedly agree with those who choose not to have children.
Those who feel "I don't want anything to impact MY life" improve the species with their genetic death.
I think a lot of posters realize they are very close to the Walmart breeders they see so often. It has to be scary realizing that is your future, unless you go like Jake Stratham and not have sex with women.
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Those who feel "I don't want anything to impact MY life" improve the species with their genetic death.
I think a lot of posters realize they are very close to the Walmart breeders they see so often. It has to be scary realizing that is your future, unless you go like Jake Stratham and not have sex with women.
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Seriously debating a vasectomy to avoid any accidents.
Years down the road IF I changed my mind I might have a 70% chance of sucess getting a girl pregnant with all of the different reversal/in vitro fertilization methods.
Years down the road IF I changed my mind I might have a 70% chance of sucess getting a girl pregnant with all of the different reversal/in vitro fertilization methods.
IN before sixteen religiously minded guys who never took birth control very seriously and have more kids than they ever wanted tell you you are FUCKING SELFISH and a BAD OVERALL PERSON.
Yea, but the funny thing is that having kids is COMPLETELY selfish. It's for yourself so that you have a legacy and so that you don't grow old alone. Now, raising them can be pretty selfless but the act of having them is not. The only way having kids isn't a selfish act is when you adopt them because they are already here and need someone to take care of them.
Furthermore Mothers Day & Fathers Day are ridiculous. You get a holiday because YOU decided to have a kid? Even more self centered and selfish...
