Can't make heads or tails of this series of events... who was girl, who was wife?
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This.
...and you kicked the fucking bedroom door in, dragged her out by the hair and smashed the ex-boyfriends face in, right?
And so much this. WTF? If you just let this happen, turn in your man card right now. You're not alpha or even beta, maybe charlie or delta or some other lesser shemale.