Stop Raping Me, Please

Thats not how law works.

Unfortunately it's exactly how the law works in the United Kingdom, and it's working towards being like that in the United States with changes in a number of states (including NY and CA).

The key change is that the onus is put on the accused to prove consent (which can almost never be done) instead of the standard innocent before proven guilty approach where the lack of consent has to be proven. This is being called "affirmative consent" and "yes means yes" in a typical PR/propaganda play.

The incentive structure that this sets up is pretty interesting. For one, it provides men with incentives to record every single sexual encounter they ever have.
 


I have a friend that would definitely go into Dexter mode.*

* he's an anarchist like me, but far more willing to deviate from society's accepted "rules of engagement."

Derp. More like you and your "friend" are an impressionable juvenile. Don't get over excited over somebody who should be completely ignored. You're just feeding her ego by publicly posting this type of nonsense.


Please tell me if I'm correct or incorrect bluechinagroup...

You quoted my post (above) and responded to it, wrongly assuming I was speculating on my friend's potential reaction to a girl falsely accusing him of rape.

If I'm incorrect, are you saying he shouldn't "get over excited over somebody" who rapes him?
 
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Unfortunately it's exactly how the law works in the United Kingdom, and it's working towards being like that in the United States with changes in a number of states (including NY and CA).

The key change is that the onus is put on the accused to prove consent (which can almost never be done) instead of the standard innocent before proven guilty approach where the lack of consent has to be proven. This is being called "affirmative consent" and "yes means yes" in a typical PR/propaganda play.

The incentive structure that this sets up is pretty interesting. For one, it provides men with incentives to record every single sexual encounter they ever have.

no its not how law works. in dubio pro reo is a foundational assumption of judicial process. if thats not how your courts work, you live in a lawless state.

i find it fascinating how easily terrified men are by the mere idea of girls actually having an instrument to retaliate against them. poor boys gonna cry.
 
Potentialeight, are you listening to 3nyaw's solemn advice?

I mean, it's along the lines of saying, "If you don't want to get raped, then just sew your vagina shut," which is similarly ridiculous (albeit taken seriously in some parts of the world). 3nyaw is a little too overt with the trolling to be effective.

Related tangentially and completely awful: Sewing Up My Wife's Vagina
 
thats just your way of keeping your eyes wide shut, labeling opinions that dont comprehend in your narrowminded shitshow trolling.

maybe its time for you to grow a vagina?
 
i find it fascinating how easily terrified men are by the mere idea of girls actually having an instrument to retaliate against them. poor boys gonna cry.

I'm fairly certain the concern isn't honest, honorable women having a form of protection. The concern is whack-job bitches who make false accusations being given free reign to destroy the lives of others.

Learn to think, my friend.
 
Please tell me if I'm correct or incorrect bluechinagroup...

You quoted my post (above) and responded to it, wrongly assuming I was speculating on my friend's potential reaction to a girl falsely accusing him of rape.

If I'm incorrect, are you saying he shouldn't "get over excited over somebody" who rapes him?

I agree that being falsely accused of rape sucks, but planning out a murder is not a mature way of handling it. Two wrongs don't make a right bud. Maybe when you grow older and wiser, you'll understand.
 
I'm fairly certain the concern isn't honest, honorable women having a form of protection. The concern is whack-job bitches who make false accusations being given free reign to destroy the lives of others.

Learn to think, my friend.

learn to english, not my friend.
 
and just out of the kindness of my heart, if you ever get falsely accused of rape, how about you just claim you werent even there. dont admit to having had sex, just say you werent there. thats still their job to prove. better yet, dont say shit. let the lawyers do their lawyering and walk.

you oversimplify like the simple idiots that you are. if it was truly that easy to get honest people locked up for years, millions of gold diggers would be busy blackmailing their entire "clientele".


if your "game" revolves around making someone drunk as to overcome their earlier rejections, that very much is morally wrong and in that case you just had it coming.

chances are youre really not in favour of daterape drugs, but have no qualms about making someone really really drunk so they just kinda not so say no. congratulations, not-at-all-rapist mcdouchenuggets.

if you were honest, youd admit that thats corrupt, you just get angsty because it ruins your tiny little niche were you got lucky every once in a while. youll have my pity, but not because youre falsely accused of rape.

have a good night, my favourite inbreds
 
I agree that being falsely accused of rape sucks, but planning out a murder is not a mature way of handling it.

You continue to miss my point. You seem to think I've said something I haven't said.

I will clarify...

- I agree that planning out a murder is not a mature way of handling a false rape accusation. I have neither said nor suggested otherwise.
- I'm pretty sure my friend would feel the same.

My mention of my friend was in the context of his being raped, not falsely accused of rape. I can't put that in any simpler terms.

Because your past posts show you're intelligent, I have to assume you're trolling me with your continued misinterpretation of my posts in this thread.


Two wrongs don't make a right bud. Maybe when you grow older and wiser, you'll understand.

You are being condescending to me without realizing you have completely misinterpreted my posts. That seems unlike you.
 
What you should have said:

And completely obvious?

Vaginal obliteration is a real thing though (relevant and not satire), and it's pretty fucked up. It's right up there with how fucked up other forms of genital mutilation are including both male and female circumcision of various types.

"Obviously [parents] don't use the word 'female genital mutilation,' said Terry Dunn, an obstretrician gynecologist in Denver, Colo. "What the mom of the patient says is, 'I want to have the procedure that makes my daughter like me.'" Many physicians who consider FGC a horrifying treatment of a girl suffer a dreadful dilemma. If they say no, the young patient may become one of tens of thousands of young girls taken back to their home countries, in a process known as 'vacation-cutting.' Once there, the girls are often cut using a broken glass or unsterilized razor blades, and, more often than not, without anesthesia. While FGC may be banned in the U.S., there is no law protecting girls from being taken overseas to have the procedure in another country.

The CDC estimates that between 150,000 to 200,000 girls in the United States are in danger of being taken overseas during their time off from school to undergo vacation cutting. In fact, Amy said her parents were pressuring her to return to their home country. Instead, Amy said, she ran away from home.

I wish it was this type of shit that was getting so much attention from the SJW idiots on Tumblr etc.
 
i had an experience with that. i wouldn't call it rape, i don't know what i'd call it.

i went out to a club in san diego with my buds, we're all trying to hook up with chicks, normal night. i wound up insanely drunk, to the point that even i knew i had to leave. i stumbled around the club looking for my friends (i had gone off with a girl earlier), but soon gave up on that and bounced outside, looking for a cab. as i'm walking a Z-line down the middle of the road, some dude in his car asked if i needed a ride. i said i did & hopped in.

he said "hey you want a drink?", and i said "yep" (as you do). that's the last thing i remember.

i woke up "X" time later in the passenger seat with this dude's mouth on my cock. i start flailing. he realizes i'm awake and withdraws. i open the car door and literally tumble out into the street. the car screams off right next to my head.

i try to get myself together. eventually i realize where i am. i walk 3 blocks to a friends house in PB. when i get there i check myself out. my underwear has been slit from waist to nuts. i try to explain it to them (my buddy & his girlfriend) but it's making me sound pretty fucking stupid. i just let it go.

i haven't talked about it (and rarely thought about it) since then. i consider it no different than a mugging or any other crime where one imposes their will when they can & shouldn't.

make of that what you will, gents.

What type of club was this?
 
and just out of the kindness of my heart, if you ever get falsely accused of rape, how about you just claim you werent even there. dont admit to having had sex, just say you werent there. thats still their job to prove.

That is some dumb ass advice. Think about what you just said.

Way to potentially incriminate yourself and give the prosecution an open and shut case.
 
Just read the articles,

"The eight-minute video, titled “Ceci N’est Pas Un Viol” — French for “This is Not a Rape” — features Sulkowicz and an anonymized male actor having seemingly consensual sex in a dorm room. But the act soon turns violent as the actor chokes and slaps Sulkowicz, removes his condom and penetrates her against her will."

This statement shows that the mattress girl is lying :) Just my opinion LOL
 
Just read the articles,

"The eight-minute video, titled “Ceci N’est Pas Un Viol” — French for “This is Not a Rape” — features Sulkowicz and an anonymized male actor having seemingly consensual sex in a dorm room. But the act soon turns violent as the actor chokes and slaps Sulkowicz, removes his condom and penetrates her against her will."

This statement shows that the mattress girl is lying :) Just my opinion LOL

she actually created this video according to her memories, hired an actor and re-enacted the whole scene. This video proves nothing, as it is directed according to her words, and was created only as an art project to express her point of view.

How can you prove she is lying, based on this video?
 
You continue to miss my point. You seem to think I've said something I haven't said.

I will clarify...

- I agree that planning out a murder is not a mature way of handling a false rape accusation. I have neither said nor suggested otherwise.
- I'm pretty sure my friend would feel the same.

My mention of my friend was in the context of his being raped, not falsely accused of rape. I can't put that in any simpler terms.

Because your past posts show you're intelligent, I have to assume you're trolling me with your continued misinterpretation of my posts in this thread.




You are being condescending to me without realizing you have completely misinterpreted my posts. That seems unlike you.

So you're saying your friend would falsely accuse someone of raping him? Would it be another guy or a girl? When does Dexter mode come into play?
 
That is some dumb ass advice. Think about what you just said.

Way to potentially incriminate yourself and give the prosecution an open and shut case.

He did follow up with saying that it's better to not say anything and just lawyer up instead. Ultimately this is what has to be done. You need to stay silent and have your legal counsel do the talking. We can all surely agree on that.
 
He did follow up with saying that it's better to not say anything and just lawyer up instead. Ultimately this is what has to be done. You need to stay silent and have your legal counsel do the talking. We can all surely agree on that.

It's not better, it's the only thing you should do.