If you are female and looking to look at cocks, don't waste your time here, there's just lots of boobs!
If you are female and looking for others like you, know most of the members w/female advatars are men, females are in the minority. There's probably enough gay men here you will feel at home anyways!
There are a few members here who are legally trained to help you with your meds when you are ready to go back on them, just ask! EDIT (I agree!)
For every member posting there are countless more members lurking, watching, reading, and of course....pointing and laughing.
You don't have to swear, but it helps to fit in. I don't really swear, but they let me stay anyways.
If you are in my age group (mid 40's), most of the members here are younger than those old jeans at the back of your closet you actually still believe you'll fit into someday!