Don't believe in this "good personality" bullshit,
start taking care of yourself, nice clothes, haircut, gym etc.
Your look will open the door for you, your personality will keep it open.
When you know that you look good, and feel great about yourself,
your confidence fucking shines out of you, and girls notice it.
These "I can't get laid" threads are fucking gay. Stop being a pussy.
The best and easiest thing I have found is to start with a "neg" aka a negative comment about something. Don't be a dick, but say something in a joking manner. Like "wow that bag looks like a gucci knockoff" or "that bag is fucking huge! what do you keep in there?" or "my grandma has that same dress!"
Gather up your confidence and give her an ultimatum:
"Ayyy girl... so when you gonna let me tap that?"
She will say yes or no... and you will come closer to becoming a man regardless.
Just go say hi next time. No matter what happens you'll feel 100x better than not doing anything. And most of the time, if don't come across as a douche, you'll make great headway. Approach anxiety sucks but it fades somewhat the more you put yourself out there...
Be a complete gentlemen and a complete asshole at same time.
The hate/love feelings reminds them of there own fathers and they will come in line.
But one basic advice is just to stop hyper focusing on that shit and get focused on your paper chase.
Bitches love coming along for the money ride so make that your focus and bitches will fall in line....
You will always lose money chasing women , but you will never lose women chasing money....
focus ........
I strongly believe confidence comes from achieved goals, however if you attempt big goals initially, you will fail lose lose confidence.
What you want is to take a vow that you will improve yourself in the long run. Set yourself small challenges that scare you a bit, and make sure you complete them. Once you realise those are easy, aim higher.
It isn't a magical solution, but I'm 24 now and 100x better than I was at 18, just because I've slowly realised what I can do if I want to.
And not doing anything is a failure in itself, which will lower your confidence. So whatever you do, do something. Ask her for the time, ask her where a certain stop is. Seems scary at first, but once you realise how easy it is you can take it to the next level.
Throw spaghetti against the wall and watch a couple pieces stick. It's a numbers game, just like affiliate marketing.
Ok dude, this is the best tip you can get.
Don't go up and talk to her.
Reasons:
1) you are riding the bus
2) you sound like you don't have a car. At 19 a nice car is at least 60% of the picture.
3) You need to grow some balls.
If you talk to her and fuck up, you'll probably never see her again. If never talk to her, you'll probably never see her again. If you talk to her and don't fuck up, then you've got a hot chick.
The upside of talking to her is greater, and the downside is the same.
Assuming this is a legit post by the o/p... it's just a girl, bro. Be witty, crack a few jokes. Then ask for her facebook or myspace. Yeah people use to ask for numbers but this way she gets to check you out more and after a few days of steady chats get her number.
The worst thing she can do is say no. Boohoo, move on to the next piece of meat.
Assuming that she was riding on a bus she isn't high maintenance. Take advantage of this and just go up and say hi. Or point something out and just start a convo on that... also pics of said girl or didnt happen
Don't believe in this "good personality" bullshit,
start taking care of yourself, nice clothes, haircut, gym etc.
Your look will open the door for you, your personality will keep it open.
When you know that you look good, and feel great about yourself,
your confidence fucking shines out of you, and girls notice it.
Run through some hood rats first.
^ I'm putting it all in a notepad. Time to step up my game, pussy here I come! :banana_sml:
You're asking wickedfire for relationship advice? The only TNA most of these guys here have ever seen is from the boob threads.
if you want to get to bed with a woman just think of a man