I'm such a fucking looser, please help me!



Assuming that she was riding on a bus she isn't high maintenance. Take advantage of this and just go up and say hi. Or point something out and just start a convo on that... also pics of said girl or didnt happen
 
Don't believe in this "good personality" bullshit,
start taking care of yourself, nice clothes, haircut, gym etc.
Your look will open the door for you, your personality will keep it open.

When you know that you look good, and feel great about yourself,
your confidence fucking shines out of you, and girls notice it.
 
The problem is you're putting the pussy up on a pedastal.

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Don't believe in this "good personality" bullshit,
start taking care of yourself, nice clothes, haircut, gym etc.
Your look will open the door for you, your personality will keep it open.

When you know that you look good, and feel great about yourself,
your confidence fucking shines out of you, and girls notice it.

true story. or if you make lots of monies online it will replace the gym part :costumed-smiley-087.

watch the jersey shore season and pay attention to "the situation" and "pauly d" and you will know what megashape is talking about. good luck
 
Sure, why not... and:
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The best and easiest thing I have found is to start with a "neg" aka a negative comment about something. Don't be a dick, but say something in a joking manner. Like "wow that bag looks like a gucci knockoff" or "that bag is fucking huge! what do you keep in there?" or "my grandma has that same dress!"

Gather up your confidence and give her an ultimatum:

"Ayyy girl... so when you gonna let me tap that?"

She will say yes or no... and you will come closer to becoming a man regardless.

Just go say hi next time. No matter what happens you'll feel 100x better than not doing anything. And most of the time, if don't come across as a douche, you'll make great headway. Approach anxiety sucks but it fades somewhat the more you put yourself out there...

Be a complete gentlemen and a complete asshole at same time.

The hate/love feelings reminds them of there own fathers and they will come in line.

But one basic advice is just to stop hyper focusing on that shit and get focused on your paper chase.

Bitches love coming along for the money ride so make that your focus and bitches will fall in line....

You will always lose money chasing women , but you will never lose women chasing money....

focus ........

I strongly believe confidence comes from achieved goals, however if you attempt big goals initially, you will fail lose lose confidence.

What you want is to take a vow that you will improve yourself in the long run. Set yourself small challenges that scare you a bit, and make sure you complete them. Once you realise those are easy, aim higher.

It isn't a magical solution, but I'm 24 now and 100x better than I was at 18, just because I've slowly realised what I can do if I want to.

And not doing anything is a failure in itself, which will lower your confidence. So whatever you do, do something. Ask her for the time, ask her where a certain stop is. Seems scary at first, but once you realise how easy it is you can take it to the next level.

Throw spaghetti against the wall and watch a couple pieces stick. It's a numbers game, just like affiliate marketing.

Ok dude, this is the best tip you can get.

Don't go up and talk to her.

Reasons:

1) you are riding the bus
2) you sound like you don't have a car. At 19 a nice car is at least 60% of the picture.
3) You need to grow some balls.

If you talk to her and fuck up, you'll probably never see her again. If never talk to her, you'll probably never see her again. If you talk to her and don't fuck up, then you've got a hot chick.

The upside of talking to her is greater, and the downside is the same.

Assuming this is a legit post by the o/p... it's just a girl, bro. Be witty, crack a few jokes. Then ask for her facebook or myspace. Yeah people use to ask for numbers but this way she gets to check you out more and after a few days of steady chats get her number.

The worst thing she can do is say no. Boohoo, move on to the next piece of meat.

Assuming that she was riding on a bus she isn't high maintenance. Take advantage of this and just go up and say hi. Or point something out and just start a convo on that... also pics of said girl or didnt happen

Don't believe in this "good personality" bullshit,
start taking care of yourself, nice clothes, haircut, gym etc.
Your look will open the door for you, your personality will keep it open.

When you know that you look good, and feel great about yourself,
your confidence fucking shines out of you, and girls notice it.

Run through some hood rats first.






^ I'm putting it all in a notepad. Time to step up my game, pussy here I come! :banana_sml:
 
^ I'm putting it all in a notepad. Time to step up my game, pussy here I come! :banana_sml:

If you are going that route and are broke, at least get Open Office.

That way you can convert the data into a PDF and sell it like David DeAngelo so that you can earn some money to get a vehicle. Then you can upgrade from "Bus Broads".
 
You're asking wickedfire for relationship advice? The only TNA most of these guys here have ever seen is from the boob threads.

.......................................................................^^^^^^^^^^^^^Agreed!!

I also heard that the last piece of ass most of the guys here got is when their finger slipped though the toilet paper!!
 
just think of the 5 F's and yourself... if you want to get to bed with a woman just think of a man and take out reason and accountability... the shit just flows from there ;)
 
To OP: If you really want to "fix" yourself in this regard, google for the 'seduction community'. I learnt how to pick up chicks from there (yea no shit). Some pointers:

- DON't fall for the shitload of marketed offers in that niche (DVDs, eBooks, seminars, workshops, ...), just learn from the free resources, that's more than enough

- Just like in affiliate marketing, experience is king, so instead of sitting on your ass all day, go out 4 times a week and talk to at least 10 chicks each night, even if you only say "hi" or ask "what the best places to go to" are... So DON'T read forums on picking up chicks 10 hrs a day, read maybe 1 hr and go out 2-3 hrs each day. If you can't go out, practice on any chicks you meet.

- Be prepared to spend 1-3 years on this before getting any good. Also note that real success actually comes more from the confidence you build up from all this practice, than from any techniques (although the techniques are definitely awesome).

- You'll probably lose your virginity within a year by sheer number of approaches if you do this

Good luck