It isn't really relevant if I believe you or not that's not what we're discussing. I'm already assuming you're a complete tool based on the two posts you've made in this very thread. Notably asking an entire forum how you can ruin someone's life because you are so completely clueless on how to react to the situation you are in.
It is quite obvious what you should be doing but you're so obviously blinded by rage, while seemingly lacking in any sort of class or tact that your juvenile response has been so incredibly lame.
Anyway thanks for the warm welcome to the forum, seasons greetings to you too!
Tits or GTFO