Dude, nobody gets raped in county unless you're willing and you find a fruit who desires to ram rod you.
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Dude, nobody gets raped in county unless you're willing and you find a fruit who desires to ram rod you.
I spent several years in prison and that shit was never an issue. There are so many willing fuckboys inside that if you aren't gay you don't get fucked with. I did see guys get in too deep with gambling debts and heard rumors but its nothing like TV tries to make it out to be.
How were you able to get an apartment with your criminal background ?
I got a DWI when I was 18, and my buildings management company made a fuss over that, so I could imagine...
I got a DWI when I was 18, and my buildings management company made a fuss over that, so I could imagine...
ive never heard of building companies doing background checks or even asking about criminal history. guess you just got unlucky.
True for the most part. Mostly you have guys who are 24/7 gay and willing to go to a secluded part of the mod with whoever. Then you have a ton of people (lots of mexicans, actually) who are only gay in prison/jail.
Among the mexicans, pre and post op trannies who are bi are extremely popular. Like never having to buy store popular.
In jail you really have to put out mixed signals to get propositioned. Prison, not so much. You can run across the odd guy raper in jail, but it way rare. Met 2 inmates who would regularly force smaller/helpless guys to have sex. Master manipulators who, while not that big, had an air of barely controlled violence
Well seems I got a lot to learn about prison and jail, not being from the US. We just got ourselves the one type here(of course high and low security for different types of criminals).
Is the difference between jail and prison something got to do with privatization.
Is the difference between jail and prison something got to do with privatization.
I don't think many jails are privatized. More prisons are privatized than jails.
Jail is where you go when you're arrested. Prison is where you go when you're convicted. It's ok to go to jail. Prison's where you want to avoid being.
There was this girl I wanted to get back with who I thought would be impressed if I could buy her expensive stuff. I quickly learned that you don't need to buy anything for girls for them to want you, having money is enough. (before i get lots of backlash, not all girls are like this, just most).
Once I started doing well, my motivation changed to me just wanting to build a successful business so that I'd never have a boss again. Once you get a taste of that, I think it's hard to go back.
Where I was, prison was only used for serving sentences of a year or more. If you were waiting for trial or sentenced to something under a year, you would be sent to county.
According to people I've talked to, it's preferable to be in prison because there is much more to do and you aren't stuck in one place all day. For me, I actually was hanging out with people i knew from highschool most of the time playing spades and dominoes and watching tv. Food was fucking awful, and I can remember the best meal I ever ate was taco bell as soon as I got out.
Some of the Wickedfire drama is completely laughable and juvenile. Don't know you Cakes, but I gotta give you props for putting your life out here like that.
Taking this from a different slant:
I work in an alternative high school in an moderate to affluent suburban area. 90% of our kids are labeled "at risk" and we have a huge drug problem not on campus but with recreational use outside of school coming into the classroom.
Question for all of you who've gone clean or not - is there anything that might have dissuaded you from getting in as deep as you did in high school?
One person I knew who spent more than a few years with drugs blames (to an extent) lax parenting from a single mother who was never around and indulged in her own recreational activities with the full knowledge of her children. In a situation like that - is there any hope that the kid can walk away without drug or alcohol trouble?
I work in an alternative high school in an moderate to affluent suburban area. 90% of our kids are labeled "at risk" and we have a huge drug problem not on campus but with recreational use outside of school coming into the classroom.
Question for all of you who've gone clean or not - is there anything that might have dissuaded you from getting in as deep as you did in high school?
One person I knew who spent more than a few years with drugs blames (to an extent) lax parenting from a single mother who was never around and indulged in her own recreational activities with the full knowledge of her children. In a situation like that - is there any hope that the kid can walk away without drug or alcohol trouble?
@internetauthor lost a few years of my life in hs to pretty heavy psychedelic use. wound up being an adolescent drug and sexual perp counselor for a few years after i got my shit together.
i worked with a lot of tough kids, and to answer your question, the answer is kinda not. most (not all just most) kids that age aren't fucking around with drugs that are heavily physically dependent and aren't heavy enough users to even by psychologically dependent. it's a reaction against authority compounded by the fact that kids feel invincible. that's why abstinence education (12 steps etc) have such a high recidivism rate in teens. teens think too much of themselves to believe they're powerless over anything.
best success i had was to not demonize drugs but to tell them stories of my successful pothead friends. then explain to them that, unfortunately, at this phase in their life if they want to be free to do their shit there are a few ground rules. they can get back to smoking or whatever once they're out of the house, but for now they have to play the game.
that started to work really well - i had 10 kids under my care in an inpatient program, and 3-4 of them flipped. still hear from 2 of them now and then, 10 years later.
administration obviously didn't like it though, so we parted ways. as a teacher, you're kind of fucked as i'm sure you have to tout the 'drugs are evil' party line.
i worked with a lot of tough kids, and to answer your question, the answer is kinda not. most (not all just most) kids that age aren't fucking around with drugs that are heavily physically dependent and aren't heavy enough users to even by psychologically dependent. it's a reaction against authority compounded by the fact that kids feel invincible. that's why abstinence education (12 steps etc) have such a high recidivism rate in teens. teens think too much of themselves to believe they're powerless over anything.
best success i had was to not demonize drugs but to tell them stories of my successful pothead friends. then explain to them that, unfortunately, at this phase in their life if they want to be free to do their shit there are a few ground rules. they can get back to smoking or whatever once they're out of the house, but for now they have to play the game.
that started to work really well - i had 10 kids under my care in an inpatient program, and 3-4 of them flipped. still hear from 2 of them now and then, 10 years later.
administration obviously didn't like it though, so we parted ways. as a teacher, you're kind of fucked as i'm sure you have to tout the 'drugs are evil' party line.
I was a case manager for these kids/men/women. You know, making sure they go to their programs, getting them into new programs, taking care of their welfare etc. I was in and out of some pretty rough ghetto going to these programs/houses three times a week. In short, they would have had to pay me 200k to stay at that job. I was making 27,500! Fuckkkkkkk that! 99.9% of these people blew off their counseling, which meant I had to report to their P.O.s and back to jail they went.
bro there is nothing worse than working in an inpatient program for juvenile sexual offenders. they're hitting on you 1/2 the time and meanwhile you have to teach them about responsible, "normal" consensual sexuality - they have to ask you permission. to. fucking. jerk. off. worst. experience. ever.
and then they have to "process" the jerk off fantasy. which is code for they have to tell you what they whacked it to. and most of the time it is another patient, or staff, and yes sometimes it is you.
fucking terrible.
and then they have to "process" the jerk off fantasy. which is code for they have to tell you what they whacked it to. and most of the time it is another patient, or staff, and yes sometimes it is you.
fucking terrible.