What's the point of marriage?
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Fuck, if any of you guys who're whinging about a lack of freedom in marriage had slept with even a quarter of the women you're trying to insinuate you have, you'd realise that sleeping with a different girl every night of the week isn't even close to what you imagine it to be.
Yeah. I finally got divorce finalized a little over a week ago after 7 years of being married and 3 years of a separation/divorce process. It got way more complicated than I thought it'd be.
While there are benefits to being married if the girl is alright in the head (and somehow manages to stay that way throughout the years), I don't think I'll do it again without prenup in a community property state. "Girls change" is an understatement.
Financial - from taxes to insurance to shared expenses, etc. There can be more efficiency if both are settled down. In my case I have never cooked, done laundry, clean up after the kids or anything household that she took over. It gave me a lot of time to focus on things I had to focus on. She took over the house - everything from picking bedroom sheets and making all pretty and comfy. Kids and family did change her in a better way. I dont have patience for all of this, but it did feel pretty nice to come home, crash in a comfortable bed after having a dinner. Perception of togetherness forever changes the situation quite a bit for some women. Many girls change after marriage in terms of focusing on making a warm home nest. Loneliness - never have I felt so lonely as right after we have split. I've went through quite a few girls, dating, etc., but its hard to find that warm and caring feeling for each other that existed at some point in life. Sharing life and finances can make it a lot easier to make arrangements with someone you are married to vs a girlfriend. It does feel good to always have a partner you can turn to, especially when things are not going right in some area in life. I have no other family close by. Speaking of the family, there are other conveniences in marriage - for instance, I am planning to go see my family in another country for 3 months this year. I did not have to plan as much for things like these as I do now. Figuring out how to be with kids in cases like these when non-married gets really complicated, even though we are on semi good terms right now.
So yeah, there are a few benefits, especially if you are planning to have kids at some point in life. But... There are a quite a few benefits of not being married as well and I am not saying that one is better then the other. However, at this point, I love my single life.
Not to be a dick, but literally half the benefits you listed for having a wife (cooking, cleaning, not having to worry about domestic shit) I've been outsourcing for years.
Not shitting on marriage (well, not really) but anyone considering it should really, REALLY look into it for what it is: voluntarily signing a contract with the government that you don't want any other vaginas in your life ever again.
There is literally no beneficial reason to get married. None. And anyone that lists taxes as a benefit needs to have their head examined.
The majority of general population needs to have their heads examined. I am just listing general benefits without breaking it down into social status.
Just another logic to the madness of marriage; it was invented by the past rulers to keep the schmucks with one woman that makes them serve the king.
If you read all the so called old text of the bible or other religious books, the rulers had many wives, while the subjects were restricted to only one.
It was also a way to subdue the FEMININE ENERGY to make it more controllable. Spiritually women have more power, especially if they learn to control the emotional handicaps.
A good partner or wife is hard to find, for women are evolving and they want to rule again.
Some of the reasons why people pick the wrong partner:
Met at a bar and the alcohol did most of the attracting
It was based on sexual attraction, and that eventually gets old.
Never bothered to meet the "friends" and you discover most are insane.
Never bothered to look closely at the family tree. If from a divorced home and raised by the mother, the woman will later on in life exhibit hatred of men in subtle ways.
Go check, most divorced couples were raised by divorced parents.
Finally, I strongly believe you attract who you are. If you want someone nice, you better be nice. If you want someone that cares, you better care.
And if you want someone that can cook, clean, and fuck you anytime you want, you better order a "Japanese female Robot"
If you read all the so called old text of the bible or other religious books, the rulers had many wives, while the subjects were restricted to only one.
It was also a way to subdue the FEMININE ENERGY to make it more controllable. Spiritually women have more power, especially if they learn to control the emotional handicaps.
A good partner or wife is hard to find, for women are evolving and they want to rule again.
Some of the reasons why people pick the wrong partner:
Met at a bar and the alcohol did most of the attracting
It was based on sexual attraction, and that eventually gets old.
Never bothered to meet the "friends" and you discover most are insane.
Never bothered to look closely at the family tree. If from a divorced home and raised by the mother, the woman will later on in life exhibit hatred of men in subtle ways.
Go check, most divorced couples were raised by divorced parents.
Finally, I strongly believe you attract who you are. If you want someone nice, you better be nice. If you want someone that cares, you better care.
And if you want someone that can cook, clean, and fuck you anytime you want, you better order a "Japanese female Robot"
Are you saying that you want a wife that can't cook and clean? Yeah, all of it can be outsourced. Going out, spending time together is important and I am not saying that this is all she needs to do, but I for me a married woman needs to know how to keep things clean and cook. Of course it is not the case if you like cooking or cleaning/can outsource it all or live in dirt. To each its own. I've met a few guys who stay at home, cook, clean, take care of all school stuff for the kids and take care of the house while their wife make money and it works for them.
Neckbeards are more likely to jump into marriage with the first girl that touches their ungroomed, uncircumcised member.
No. Church ceremony these days is just for fun and tradition. Most people who do it call themselves Christians but when it comes to knowledge of religion they know shit. They do this because their parents and grandparents did that. That's all. Almost all my fiends are married but probably none of them gives a fuck about religion or monogamy. Sure there are some exceptions and I'm sure here on WF we have them in greater quantities than anywhere else.
There should be a law that you can't marry before you're together for 10 years.
Prenups should be mandatory with only one way to void them, proof of cheating.
Common law should be eliminated.
I don't know what the point of marriage is, or where I'm going with this.
Prenups should be mandatory with only one way to void them, proof of cheating.
Common law should be eliminated.
I don't know what the point of marriage is, or where I'm going with this.
Dude, you sound pathetic. Do you need your big daddy government to hold your unit while you take a leak as well?
Ummm, it's big daddy govt that bends you over and fucks you in the ass with a 14 foot pole when your wife decides she doesn't like you any more, and wants new dick.
How old are you? Do you talk to women often?
Get your head out of the sand. There is more to relationships than just sex.
I hope that you'll be able to, one day, know what it's like to want to spend the rest of your life with someone, and to receive the same sincere love back.
Yeah, been there, done that. It comes in the middle of being a lonely cunt who thinks there's more to the world, and having your heart put through a meat grinder & life turned upside down.
The middle part is quite good though.
That latter part, not so much.Yeah, been there, done that. It comes in the middle of being a lonely cunt who thinks there's more to the world, and having your heart put through a meat grinder & life turned upside down.
The middle part is quite good though.
I'm sorry to hear you had to go through that.
