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Oh hum...I'm clearly a very important person in your world as is demonstrated by how much attention you pay to me:
Q.E.D. is an acronym of the Latin phrase quod erat demonstrandum, which means "that which was to be demonstrated". The phrase is traditionally placed in its abbreviated form at the end of a mathematical proof or philosophical argument when that which was specified in the enunciation, and in the setting-out, has been exactly restated as the conclusion of the demonstration.[1] The abbreviation thus signals the completion of the proof. However, many people who do not know the Latin translation of Q.E.D. use it to mean "Quite Easily Done", using it in a similar context.
Did you read that dear? Mathematical proof or PHILOSOPHICAL ARGUMENT.
I don't blame you for paying so much attention to me.....
You all should be listening to dreamache! Don't hate on him because he found an amazing woman and isn't so pessimistic.
If you found the right woman she would be enhancing your net worth not detracting from it.
I have personally spent dozens of hours edited resumes and didn't get paid one red cent - lol
Where are you looking for women? Any way, my advice to you is to skip what anyone says and do the following:
1. Find a friend that's married/dating the kind of woman you want
2. Ask him to get his lady to set you up on a date (bird's of a feather flock together....)
Ask her to read a Random Walk Down Wall St. and Martha Stewart Living and do two book reports for you...lol
3. Post the results.....
or
4. Have her meet a really hot, rich, well-connected friend of yours (in private). Tell him to come on to her. If she slaps his face, she's a keeper...if she runs off with them, you've saved yourself an expensive divorce and ditched a loser of a friend.....
I think it depends on what socio-economic class you're talking about. For the vast majority--that sweet spot inside the bell curve--behaviors and motivations are going to be pretty similar.
Marriage in western society--for the masses--comes with no dowry, no tribal unification and no real social benefit. Marriage was never about lasting love, sex, etc etc.
Do billionaires want ambitious women like riddar describes? If it serves their purposes, maybe. When 99 percent of the people who look up to you or do business with you expect to adhere to traditional, conservative values, you'll probably take on a wife. Keep in mind, there are exceptions to every rule.
Marriage in western society--for the masses--comes with no dowry, no tribal unification and no real social benefit. Marriage was never about lasting love, sex, etc etc.
Do billionaires want ambitious women like riddar describes? If it serves their purposes, maybe. When 99 percent of the people who look up to you or do business with you expect to adhere to traditional, conservative values, you'll probably take on a wife. Keep in mind, there are exceptions to every rule.
but seriously... just go with the flow. Seems like your friends are rubbing off on you, which is too be expected. But i say establish yourself first. Once you figure that shit out, the rest is all pancakes...
Do not marry or get into a relationship with a spanish woman. If you do that you will live freely and prosperously. They put up a facade of a gentle kind spicy woman that can cook and clean and once you marry them you notice that they just pay maids to do everything and all your acai money isn't in your second savings account. Next thing you know she moves back to Venezuela with all your money and 18 year old Pablo (the gardner she's been fucking) and you never see her again.
OP, if you really view relationships in such a cynical way and yet (like most of us) have a natural desire for a monogamous relationship, I think you are going to struggle to find happiness, or rather contentment.
I wonder how many of you who are equally as cynical view money as the end goal itself, rather than a means to an end? Financial security is only important insofar as it creates stability and reduces stress. Money in itself is meaningless.
I wonder how many of you who are equally as cynical view money as the end goal itself, rather than a means to an end? Financial security is only important insofar as it creates stability and reduces stress. Money in itself is meaningless.
I've thought about this a lot recently after having been with a drama queen who made me realise quite a bit about women's thinking and behaviour.
It's nice that we all want a stable, normal, emotionally proper woman, but I find it unlikely that there are many of them, and I am not sure us men even really want that, the drama makes us fall in love.
This is probably the best advice in the thread:
I also think that a lot of you are pushing blame and responsibility onto the woman. If you want the woman to stay with you, you have to do something about it. You can't put in nothing, and expect the woman to put everything in and stay with you. Investment in the relationship that the girl can see is very important.
If she leaves you, it's your fault. I've been cheated on by the above mentioned girl and it was the worst feeling I ever felt, but I know deep down that is was my fault, at the time she had no respect for me whatsoever, and I did that.
An alpha male takes responsibility for his actions and behaviour, and won't be cheated on.
Back to the start of the thread, if you want security and comfort in a relationship, you are already not on equal terms with the woman, and you are already giving up respect. You are already a pussy and not the leader of the tribe. How do you expect the woman to sleep with you and be attracted to you?
Women DO want security, which is probably why they stay with someone just for the mortgage. Leaving would be too big a risk.
I honestly don't know where we are supposed to go if we have a problem without losing respect in the woman's eyes. This seriously fucks with my head.
It's nice that we all want a stable, normal, emotionally proper woman, but I find it unlikely that there are many of them, and I am not sure us men even really want that, the drama makes us fall in love.
This is probably the best advice in the thread:
I also think that a lot of you are pushing blame and responsibility onto the woman. If you want the woman to stay with you, you have to do something about it. You can't put in nothing, and expect the woman to put everything in and stay with you. Investment in the relationship that the girl can see is very important.
If she leaves you, it's your fault. I've been cheated on by the above mentioned girl and it was the worst feeling I ever felt, but I know deep down that is was my fault, at the time she had no respect for me whatsoever, and I did that.
An alpha male takes responsibility for his actions and behaviour, and won't be cheated on.
Back to the start of the thread, if you want security and comfort in a relationship, you are already not on equal terms with the woman, and you are already giving up respect. You are already a pussy and not the leader of the tribe. How do you expect the woman to sleep with you and be attracted to you?
Women DO want security, which is probably why they stay with someone just for the mortgage. Leaving would be too big a risk.
I honestly don't know where we are supposed to go if we have a problem without losing respect in the woman's eyes. This seriously fucks with my head.
You betta keep her away from my balling clique
Keep her out of nightclubs all in the mix
From hanging out with chicks who be swallowing dicks
From catz who order Cris play the floor with the Knicks
It can only lead to something unfortunate
Hot boy like Jigga man scorch your bitch
Keep her out of nightclubs all in the mix
From hanging out with chicks who be swallowing dicks
From catz who order Cris play the floor with the Knicks
It can only lead to something unfortunate
Hot boy like Jigga man scorch your bitch
it seems like relationships/marriage are more about who you can "put up" with. After the initial 6 months of the relationship - attraction falls, and its more about your attachment to your partner.
Chose wisely - because if you dont mingle with your partner the best - that post 6 month period is set up for hell.
Chose wisely - because if you dont mingle with your partner the best - that post 6 month period is set up for hell.
I have fun reading these relationship threads because my relationship with my wife doesn't seem to match up with anything posted in them. At the same time, I am at a complete loss as to how to explain to anyone why we worked out so well.