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They don't exist, they have to be trained.
They might be like this before marriage, but after you tie the knot everything goes downhill unless you train her. Not unlike training an animal, or a child.
If you slack off, they will take advantage of you. This is what most guys do and this is what leads to problems.
Look when your in your 20's dont go dating women. im 18 i have only dated once and it taught me to stay single and just fuck around. Im not instrested in your bullshit i have money to make.
Plus my friends brother is almost 20, and he got a trailer trash girlfriend pregnate. Im not suprised in the least BTW.
Plus my friends brother is almost 20, and he got a trailer trash girlfriend pregnate. Im not suprised in the least BTW.
I don't have a problem with women who like money. I don't really have a problem with any women. I accept them for the indecisive, emotionally fragile, absolutely necessary creatures that they are.
I think the problem is, a lot of men are confused and think they are entitled to a woman that loves them unconditionally, regardless of how broke they are or how physically unattractive they might be or become. Or maybe how completely uninteresting they might be. I believe this is because they are confusing the love they got from their mother for the love they should receive from an adult female partner.
But that's not your woman's job. You're an adult now. You're supposed to knock her up so she can dote unconditionally on your offspring. Possibly while simultaneously resenting your lazy, whiny ass.
Anyway, it doesn't have to be that complicated. Just don't take them too seriously. Make sure to have a dozen reserves so that if the one you're with entertains the idea of getting an attitude or doing something stupid, she'll remember that 12 other women are waiting in line to replace her ass.
Or, you know, fall in love with someone and have a much deeper and more profound relationship than anything that has been described in this thread and then all of this nonsense will become irrelevant.
You have options.
I think the problem is, a lot of men are confused and think they are entitled to a woman that loves them unconditionally, regardless of how broke they are or how physically unattractive they might be or become. Or maybe how completely uninteresting they might be. I believe this is because they are confusing the love they got from their mother for the love they should receive from an adult female partner.
But that's not your woman's job. You're an adult now. You're supposed to knock her up so she can dote unconditionally on your offspring. Possibly while simultaneously resenting your lazy, whiny ass.
Anyway, it doesn't have to be that complicated. Just don't take them too seriously. Make sure to have a dozen reserves so that if the one you're with entertains the idea of getting an attitude or doing something stupid, she'll remember that 12 other women are waiting in line to replace her ass.
Or, you know, fall in love with someone and have a much deeper and more profound relationship than anything that has been described in this thread and then all of this nonsense will become irrelevant.
You have options.
lol, something tells me you aren't married, and if you are, it won't last long.
if you're with a bitch that needs "trained", should drop her immediately. People change over time (men and women), it's about going with the flow, with sacrifice from both ends. If you're purposely going about your relationship with the idea you have to "train" her in mind, destined to fail.
For real? Have you not been in a relationship long enough to not know that people change in predictable ways?
Yes, people change in predictable ways. Guarantee them something and they will value it less. More familiarity also results in less value.
It's common sense and it affects relationships. You actually see it and it ruins your relationship right in front of your eyes.
You, with this post and your picture in that other thread, made my evening. You are one cool man.
I've been in a relationship/marriage for 8+ years. I'm just not sure what you're getting at here.. It seems to me your whole approach is way over-thought.
"More familiarity also results in less value.", you can't apply this to relationships. Some (mine included) relationships go stronger over time.
Bottom line, maintaining a relationship by playing games (training) is no successful/admirable relationship imo. Let things happen naturally and take your damn chances. Otherwise, you're not really in a true relationship.
Haha, thanks man. Oh shit you're Croatian, too? From Split? My grandpa was born in Vis.
Perhaps we are soulmates.
Rule 1. You'll lose plenty of money chasing women, but you won't lose any women chasing money.
Rule 2. Do what you love.
Win.
Rule 2. Do what you love.
Win.
OP made a lot of sense right up until this point
While it is true that we want a partner more than women, it's really all about sex. If fulfilled at home, most won't seek it elsewhere because it's not about power or sowing seeds .. it's simply about getting off. But you'll never get women to agree to this because this places the burden of responsibility on them.
Infidelity and Paternity Tests - 1 in 3 Not Biological Father To Children
It's china, I know, but I've read numbers close to this in the past dealing with American families. And if it's 1/3 for kids actually birthed, the truth about cheating is likely that upwards of 70% of women are unfaithful and are perpetually chasing their version of the alpha-male.
Girls are just fed this story throughout life where you "fall in love" and it always ends with "start a family" ... once they have fulfilled their part in the circle of life, most don't feel like they need the men anymore and start looking for a way out.
Spoken like someone who has a real concern that his wife is snooping on his online activities.
I know ... I've been there & you're concern is justified because she is. Insecurity is the heart and soul of a woman
While it is true that we want a partner more than women, it's really all about sex. If fulfilled at home, most won't seek it elsewhere because it's not about power or sowing seeds .. it's simply about getting off. But you'll never get women to agree to this because this places the burden of responsibility on them.
Infidelity and Paternity Tests - 1 in 3 Not Biological Father To Children
It's china, I know, but I've read numbers close to this in the past dealing with American families. And if it's 1/3 for kids actually birthed, the truth about cheating is likely that upwards of 70% of women are unfaithful and are perpetually chasing their version of the alpha-male.
Girls are just fed this story throughout life where you "fall in love" and it always ends with "start a family" ... once they have fulfilled their part in the circle of life, most don't feel like they need the men anymore and start looking for a way out.
Spoken like someone who has a real concern that his wife is snooping on his online activities.
I know ... I've been there & you're concern is justified because she is. Insecurity is the heart and soul of a woman
LOL, from the article:
The book, "Sperm Wars" will make it clear why this is so common. One of the most interesting and eye-opening books I ever read.
If your relationship is stronger after 8 years it's because you and her have compromised.
Not that it's a bad thing, in fact I think that's the right thing to do. But face it, most relationships with most girls nowadays doesn't result in healthy compromise. It only lasts as long as you are able to keep the good feelings going.
A girl who runs off of her feelings vs a girl who is mature enough to compromise are two completely different creatures.
