Look into Orange County, there's a lot of SEO people and web people in LA and not far from San Diego (if you like that city, it kind of rubs me the wrong way, although they do have a nice zoo and a bridge). But it depends on your attitude, if you're happy and going somewhere pretty much any place will match that (florida is awesome too, but everybody does speak spanish).
It also depends on your lifestyle, if you never go out then probably say out of outdoor type places such as Denver.
Concerning women, it depends on you, if you have a different person and NOT that of a locked up computer geek then you'll be ok pretty much anywhere, except stay away from place like Bay Area if you're into caucasians, but if you're into asians, stick to the west coast.
I don't know you personally, but if you're the rick from your site, you'll do fine with women, looks like you're the type. If you are moving to a college town, like houston, get your own place but not too far from campus, you'll want them sneaking in between classes for a "breaks".
Keep it up.
It also depends on your lifestyle, if you never go out then probably say out of outdoor type places such as Denver.
Concerning women, it depends on you, if you have a different person and NOT that of a locked up computer geek then you'll be ok pretty much anywhere, except stay away from place like Bay Area if you're into caucasians, but if you're into asians, stick to the west coast.
I don't know you personally, but if you're the rick from your site, you'll do fine with women, looks like you're the type. If you are moving to a college town, like houston, get your own place but not too far from campus, you'll want them sneaking in between classes for a "breaks".
Keep it up.