MOTIVATION and FUCKING SHIT!

Anyone have a recommendation for where to travel. To start out at least.

I speak fluent English/Spanish & trying to learn german, who am i kidding, im not trying to learn german but i'd like to.

You know Spanish? Go to Puerto Banus for a week.

When you see how hard they are ballin there, you will have no choice but to get your ass back to work...
 


Anyone have a recommendation for where to travel. To start out at least.

I speak fluent English/Spanish & trying to learn german, who am i kidding, im not trying to learn german but i'd like to.

Hit up Puerto Rico man. Cheap to go, cheap to stay, it's as if you stayed in America in terms of speaking English/driving around and shit (for the most part). Great beaches and shit too.
 
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Why are rich people rich? Because they don't stop after a certain amount of money and think... yeah.. this is good.
 
I just had a site that was bringing in $1000+ per month for about 2 years tank and now brings in about $200 per month. So let realities like that motivate you to diversify and keep building your portfolio. Don't get comfortable or you might lose it all. For me it was actually a great reminder to keep building too.
 
my productivity is getting worse as well. this is the ADD generation, at no other time in history has it been so easy to go from unreal productive to entertainment so quickly.
This isn't the ADD generation, it's the lazy and excuse driven generation. Alot of people say they have ADD when they don't, ADD is too mainstream now. VERY LAZY AND DONT FEEL LIKE DOING SHIT. O I HAVE ADD. If he had ADD he wouldn't be posting this thread. Not flaming on you though, just sayin....
 
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You mentioned that you dropped out of college. Now, I think college is a massive scam, and generally a massive waste of money.

However, you're 20, and you have some money. I say you get back into school. Go to a decent, cheap state school. Have fun, bang sluts, take classes, and get back into the groove of things.

Typically, I would never tell someone to go back to school, but you're so young, I think it might be a good idea. Just getting out of the apt and taking some classes can really get you back into the groove, raise your mood, and get you motivated. Sleeping late and fucking around all day can really take a serious toll on your psyche. Plus, if you ever want to get a 9-5 doing something interesting, you're going to need a degree.

Go back to school and have fun. You're young as fuck. Plus, you've got cash coming in. Most college kids are broke as shit. I know I was. You're not. Ball hard and bang some bitches.
 
This isn't the ADD generation, it's the lazy and excuse driven generation. Alot of people say they have ADD when they don't, ADD is too mainstream now. VERY LAZY AND DONT FEEL LIKE DOING SHIT. O I HAVE ADD. If he had ADD he wouldn't be posting this thread. Not flaming on you though, just sayin....

You know, i never thought of it like this. this is for sure the truth ^^
 
sup guys,

I'm 20 & currently a college dropout.

Early 2010 I made some bank with some cpa related thingz. Started with no money at all but knew a lot about what I was doing. Crazy ass method stopped working one day, but i'd gotten enough out of it to invest in other stuff. I bought two pretty big sites which I still have today.

They bring in decent money; enough to where I could be living on my own.

K end life story, here I am 1 year later, making decent money from these two websites that require minimal management.

I've reached a point of complete asshat laziness. I have all the time in the world to do whatever I want & here I am waking up every damn afternoon to sit around managing these sites, which don't even need to be managed, like a lazy mofker. I'm reading shit daily & I'm always getting new ideas but I have NO FUCKING MOTIVATION TO DO ANYTHING.

I still have a chunk of money sitting in my bank, been checking out flippa & websitebroker everyday to try and buyout some more sites, but I know this won't end my lazy fucking streak of monotonous everyday nothingness.

Anyone else been through something similar or am just a real lazy bastard.

Need suggestions, support, or feedback & I don't care if it's crazy, I just can't keep this up anymore.

tl;dr i need some motivation

Pack your laptop and go do some interesting shit in another country
 
This isn't the ADD generation, it's the lazy and excuse driven generation. Alot of people say they have ADD when they don't, ADD is too mainstream now. VERY LAZY AND DONT FEEL LIKE DOING SHIT. O I HAVE ADD. If he had ADD he wouldn't be posting this thread. Not flaming on you though, just sayin....
Preach .Hack Preach!
 
making decent money from these two websites that require minimal management.

I've reached a point of complete asshat laziness.

Enjoy it. If shit hits the fan and you're forced to be productive (i.e. your gravy train runs dry) - you will.

Of course, it's much better to be pro-active but no need to force it. Don't feel guilty for not working if you don't have to. There's no glory in wasting your life away behind a screen to make more money.
 
This isn't the ADD generation, it's the lazy and excuse driven generation. Alot of people say they have ADD when they don't, ADD is too mainstream now. VERY LAZY AND DONT FEEL LIKE DOING SHIT. O I HAVE ADD. If he had ADD he wouldn't be posting this thread. Not flaming on you though, just sayin....

^This
 
Stop smoking weed and dont start other drugs, its a waste of money, though adderal is awesome. Dont travel, its a waste of money. The earth is no different from the inside of your room. Just do work. If junkies can go clean, you can do work

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JMz1rvCFw8I"]YouTube - Kindergarten Cop - Arnie teaches some discipline[/ame]
 
Well, you have money and you are lazy. I don't have money and I am lazy. FML
 
Sounds like the best thing that could happen to you is for those two sites to tank overnight tomorrow.

Or just give up, take the cash you got now, and travel abroad for 3-6+ months. Probably the best thing a 20 year old with means could do.
 
great thread. caffeine pills helped me. no need to go to something extreme like adderall if the problem can be mitigated with something that has a lower harm profile.
 
If you have spare time, volunteer to help people less fortunate than yourself. Maybe it's just because I'm not a hormone driven 19 year old anymore but at 29 year old; different perspective and all that.

Sometimes the only real difference between your success and another's failure is that you (I) always had a warm bed, a roof over my head, food to eat and a stable household.
 
Good summary I found somewhere (probably reddit)

DO THIS:

The purpose of this document is to provide you with a complete and unequivocal guide to success.



Principles


  1. You have an obligation to yourself and to the world to achieve your goals and exact your values.
  2. You have an obligation to give nothing short of 100% on every task you perform.
  3. You have a limited amount of time, and can therefore do limited things.
  4. Setting up an end-time for a task is by definition unoptimal – if you can't make it, then you waste time feeling guilty, and if you can make it, you waste time because you "have time."
  5. There is an optimal methodology for organizing actions toward various goals such as to minimize negative effects of boredom, tire, anxiety, and overconfidence.
  6. Based on 3, 4, and 5, it's important to set achievable goals, yet have enough of them and enough variety such that time-wasting can be avoided. The system for this is as follows:
    1. For each day, and the next two, have a list of actions that satisfy the following template:
      1. 1 primary task
      2. 2 secondary tasks
      3. 3+ tertiary tasks
      4. Relevant down-time tasks
      5. Relevant break-time tasks
    2. For each week, have a list of goals that satisfy the following template:
      1. 1 primary goal
      2. 2 secondary goals
      3. 3+ tertiary goals
    3. For each month, your preparation tasks are slightly more extensive.
      1. You need to think about where you are in pursuit of your goals, and where you need to be. Make some notes about this, and retain the analysis in your memory as well.
      2. Next, you must orchestrate a plan for accomplishing what you need to during the month. This plan must at least consist of, in its barebone form:
        1. The sequence of actions that will lead to the accomplishment of each goal
        2. The possible impediments to achieving that goal, and solutions to them
        3. Analysis of the state of all areas of one's life, their intended directions, and key perspectives and events to be aware of in the coming weeks.
        4. An honest evaluation of one's goals and the efficacy of this system.
    4. After each task, evaluate what you've accomplished, what's going on around you, and what you need to do next
  7. The criteria for deciding what to do next are simple:
    1. You do the most important task that you have the capacity to do, unless there is another that would yield better results at that time.
  8. It's important to plan to be able to carry out the tasks that you should be doing at any given time, so think in advance, and be prepared with whatever materials you may need.
  9. You must keep track of what your monthly, weekly, and daily goals are. Furthermore, you must be able to adjust them as needed. Therefore, keep a clear, concise log of what they are in a digital document.
Crushing one's old habits and becoming the best person possible is not easy. In many ways, it will be like going through drug withdrawal, and in others it will be in credibly scary and negative. Yet, it's important to realize that it is impossible for you to live an authentic life, and therefore be happy, without doing exactly this. The positives will start to roll in as time goes by, however, and as you exert more effort and become more adept as a person.


You can do all of this. You will be so happy when you do. It is the only real way forward. Delaying this is wasting your time and destroying yourself.


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Yet, it's important to realize that it is impossible for you to live an authentic life, and therefore be happy, without doing exactly this.

In a nutshell, sounds like something I heard once stated more simply. "Happiness is overcoming known obstacles to achieve a known goal. "-LRH

This way, If one wants, happiness is found in nothing. However, I like your version. It fits the credo above and shows how to have loftier goals.
Happiness *can* be found in the lazy life; but only if one encounters obstacles (lumpy bed) and achieves known goals (get better mattress), in his case it's not how to pay for the bed, it's getting up and shifting the blankets or sheet, or getting up and going to the store. :)

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