meh I just feel like positive people, positivie thinking and positive environments yield good results and ideas. It's draining to sit around and listen to people talk about the same old all day, everyday. I know for certain that when Im posting on forums like wickedfire or seeing anything motivational online I reap benefits from it.
You guys are definitely shedding some light on the benefits of little competition though. I think it would be great to work with people outside of the IM industry and try to pursue new goals and help each other out.
Look around Kijiji, Google, etc. Find local entrepreneur groups. I've been to several semi-local copywriting and marketing meetups in my area lately -- all were discovered through Kijiji.
You have to have a brain, and a skeptical mindset to avoid douchebags and bullshitters; but I've been really fortunate in meeting many like-minded people.
It's nice going to a place where dickrolling newbs is inappropriate and there are always successful entrepreneurs willing to share startup advice.
Just don't share any of your million-dollar ideas with anyone!
Lots of groups you can join offline -- you're just not looking hard enough. I also met an awesomely successful entreprenuer through my brother, who is taking an entreprenuership class at his college... let's just say the guy owns a huge chunk of pepsi, every dream car you can imagine, and is great friends with most of the Dragon's Den cast... he welcomes anyone to go to the college and meet him -- student, or otherwise. I'm sure you have people like that in your location.