[advice]how to ask for oral sex...

[cardine]

lol marriage marriage lol

 

[HustlinHard]

What's with women who don't like giving blowjobs, I mean, is it really that fucking hard?? (no pun intended)

 

[bsisbs22]

When a woman refuses oral, I blame her first boyfriend.

 

[Kiopa_Matt]

And also, this whole "you're paying for it one way or another" mentality...can someone explain that to me? Or is that just a collective rationalization you guys have for settling for a less-than-ideal relationship?

We're simply saying we don't get to spend any of our own money, because it just magically disappears all the time.

 

[erect]

Say what? I'm genetically better suited to sleep with the same person for the rest of my life? Can you please substantiate this.

haha, better is a relative term. It's not natural from an evolutionary standpoint for either sex.

And also, this whole "you're paying for it one way or another" mentality...can someone explain that to me? Or is that just a collective rationalization you guys have for settling for a less-than-ideal relationship?

Everything has a cost, with marriage it's more like assuming a big ass credit card debt. That debt will come due eventually .. usually when you don't have the stuff lying around that you got when you made the arrangement.

With dating or flat out paying, it's more like spending cash on hand and has fewer long term liabilities.

I read that and heard this: "I want her to go down on me, but don't want to go down on her."

If you don't want her out looking for other men and yet still want her to go out of her way for you sexually, then spend some time and get her off properly.

I agree, but that's not how most guys think, especially when they're young. I know I didn't.

I'm more speaking about what's realistic. Both sexes are human (animals) ... you can probably count the number of monogamous animal types on a single hand.

Marriage, in it's current form, is something cooked up by the state. Just another layer of control that helps provide "security" to a big ass liberal voting block.