Hm....you seem confused.
You do realize that those "fuckers in the middle east" usually don't just blow themselves up in the middle of some random field, right? I don't give a shit about the people who blow themselves up, but I definitely care about the innocent people they take with them. They do it in public places, and they kill lots of innocent people.
So what's so different between those innocent people in the middle east and the innocent kids in this school shooting? There is none.
No difference at all. However, nobody is really effected at all in America when that happens because it happens so often. We are basically desensitized to it. When a school shooting happens, it hits closer to home. The media has to report on it like it's the end of the world because it's a tool of grievance and mourning for everyone. If the media treated it like it was just another suicide bombing, people would be like wtf.