We've had these threads, but I thought this story was worth sharing.
My first cousin has two kids. The older one is an 8 year old boy (We'll call him LilCuz) who is SUPER sharp. He absolutely kills it on the Legos and is well above average at his age. He understands everything you can throw at him.
While we're putting together a helicopter yesterday:
Boy's Mom: LilCuz, tell Berto's brother [a savvy sales/marketing engineer but no entrepreneur] what you want to be when you grow up
LilCuz: An inventor!
MY Mom: But what else would you want to be?
LilCuz: ???
My Mom: What else would you be if you can't be an inventor? What if you had to go work for---
Me, interrupting: WHAT?! STOP. LilCuz DON'T ANSWER THAT!!
Me to my mom, enraged: WHAT ARE YOU DOING? Are you TRYING to crush his hopes and dreams? You're basically putting into his brain that he can't do what he wants to do and needs to be some corporate zombie! Why would you even say that?! This is the crap I probably heard all my life and is why it took me 10 years after college to quit my job! I had to unlearn all of this rubbish you people spread!
Basically ended the conversation but I'm still a bit huffy about it. I hope she brings it back up tomorrow (I know she will) so that we can discuss further and I will tell her what she should really say and how truly disappointed I was in her.
Either way, the lack of support as my subject states was not for me, but my little 8 year old cousin who could turn out to be some genius that ends up making someone else rich for his entire life because of shit like this.
So from here on out I have a mission for LilCuz. Since he is surrounded by nothing but corporate, spiral-eyed zombies (both of his parents do ridiculously well in corporate America I'll be first to admit), I'm going to at least make sure that he is ALWAYS aware that there is the path of the righteousness.
He will be my 20 year project. He doesn't need to do anything I preach to him, but he will be aware of what lies beyond the crap that is spoonfed to him all his life.
What kind of unsupport did you guys hear this holiday season? Always be on the lookout and throw it back in its face!
Vent it out here if you got nobody in person to vent to and your online friends here will help turn that fear into adrenaline and positive energy for 2012.
My first cousin has two kids. The older one is an 8 year old boy (We'll call him LilCuz) who is SUPER sharp. He absolutely kills it on the Legos and is well above average at his age. He understands everything you can throw at him.
While we're putting together a helicopter yesterday:
LilCuz: Guess what I want to be when I grow up?
Me: A rock star?
LilCuz: An inventor!
Me: AWESOME! What do you want to invent?
LilCuz: A helper robot to help my mom around the house... but it's already made...
Me: Yeah but none of the robots are any good! You can just take someone else's robot and make one that's BETTER! I'd buy one!
...
Me: I invent websites you know!
LilCuz: Wow, how do you do that?
Me: I just learned and decided to do it. Now I don't have a boss and do whatever I want.
LilCuz: Wow - So nobody EVER tells you to DO THIS or DO THAT?
Me: That's right! Sometimes you need to listen to your customers or else they won't buy your inventions if you don't make them happy! But you're right!
... fast forward to tonight:Me: A rock star?
LilCuz: An inventor!
Me: AWESOME! What do you want to invent?
LilCuz: A helper robot to help my mom around the house... but it's already made...
Me: Yeah but none of the robots are any good! You can just take someone else's robot and make one that's BETTER! I'd buy one!
...
Me: I invent websites you know!
LilCuz: Wow, how do you do that?
Me: I just learned and decided to do it. Now I don't have a boss and do whatever I want.
LilCuz: Wow - So nobody EVER tells you to DO THIS or DO THAT?
Me: That's right! Sometimes you need to listen to your customers or else they won't buy your inventions if you don't make them happy! But you're right!
Boy's Mom: LilCuz, tell Berto's brother [a savvy sales/marketing engineer but no entrepreneur] what you want to be when you grow up
LilCuz: An inventor!
MY Mom: But what else would you want to be?
LilCuz: ???
My Mom: What else would you be if you can't be an inventor? What if you had to go work for---
Me, interrupting: WHAT?! STOP. LilCuz DON'T ANSWER THAT!!
Me to my mom, enraged: WHAT ARE YOU DOING? Are you TRYING to crush his hopes and dreams? You're basically putting into his brain that he can't do what he wants to do and needs to be some corporate zombie! Why would you even say that?! This is the crap I probably heard all my life and is why it took me 10 years after college to quit my job! I had to unlearn all of this rubbish you people spread!
Either way, the lack of support as my subject states was not for me, but my little 8 year old cousin who could turn out to be some genius that ends up making someone else rich for his entire life because of shit like this.
So from here on out I have a mission for LilCuz. Since he is surrounded by nothing but corporate, spiral-eyed zombies (both of his parents do ridiculously well in corporate America I'll be first to admit), I'm going to at least make sure that he is ALWAYS aware that there is the path of the righteousness.
He will be my 20 year project. He doesn't need to do anything I preach to him, but he will be aware of what lies beyond the crap that is spoonfed to him all his life.
What kind of unsupport did you guys hear this holiday season? Always be on the lookout and throw it back in its face!
Vent it out here if you got nobody in person to vent to and your online friends here will help turn that fear into adrenaline and positive energy for 2012.