Yes, the majority of behavioral problems in our society stems from parents who are crap. This is no doubt passed down from generations of bad parenting. However, the sheer volume of kids with behavioral issues is on the rise exponentially since the 90's when this fad of "positive reinforcement" and other crap hit the MSM.
Can you prove it's on the rise? If so, can you prove that the absence of spanking is the cause of this?
I have lots of friends who are teachers, social workers, etc. and you would be astounded by the crap they have to deal with because of the idea of "spanking" a child is the most ghastly thing you could ever do. The children in question run the house, not the parents, because the parents have read multiple books on "proper parenting" instead of using their common sense.
First of all, teachers have a lot of shit to deal with because you're cramming a bunch of children into a classroom against their own will. Children are just as much human as adults are. Would you ever condone another person telling you you must sit in a classroom for 8 hours a day, and if you don't like it, you get punished? No, you wouldn't.
Secondly, do you *really* know that's why these children in question run the house? Because their parents are reading books about parenting? Maybe it's because the parents neglect their children? Maybe they just don't give a shit about what they do. I have a daughter going on 3, and where most parents would end up spanking her for
bad behavior, we simply tell her to stop or and tell her what she's doing is wrong, along with why it's wrong, and then redirect her into another situation; and guess what, she stops. Physically assaulting (spanking) would cause for a cry fest, and then resentment and fear. Sure they'll behave if you want them to fear you, but like I said before, is that the best method? Parents give in too quickly and just resort to spanking instead of dealing with the situation at hand.
The other day our kid was with us at Sam's Club (shopping center), they had a huge play-set with swings on display and she wanted to climb up the display center and swing on them. We told her it's a display and it's too high up to reach, but she wouldn't listen. So she starts screaming at the top of her lungs. Where many parents would start spanking them, we left the store with her. She quit crying in the car, and that was that. Children go through natural phases where they can't comprehend certain things and that's just natural child behavior, physically assaulting them does more harm than good.
Good watch:
[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NvCZ0hSHxCM]Why Does Everyone Pretend There's A 'Spanking Debate'? - YouTube[/ame]