My sis suspects her husband is cheating...

lol i used to get paid to catch cheaters quite often. It's funny because whenever someone hires you they always act like they're organizing a major drug deal. The harder I tried to hold it in the more I would end up giggling.

Oh and advise her to install 007 spy on the computer and turn on the gps feature on her phone and "accidentally" leave it in his vehicle. between those two things you'll catch most.
 


Your sis shouldn't bother with gadgetry to figure out where he's been. Women have pretty good skills for reading people, and all she needs to do is to watch his behavior.

If he won't look at her in the eye, and acts generally evasive, he's hiding something. Guys who are boning somebody else are struggling with guilt. Being defensive and argumentative is another clear sign he feels guilty about his behavior.

If he's lost interest in sex with his wife, he may be getting plenty elsewhere so less interested. Surprising his wife with a new sexual technique is also a sign of cheating. He learned this new skill from somebody else.

i used to do all of the above...on purpose just to feel my partner insecure and get her out of the loop. Nothing was going on but it helps to keep things in control.

When things did happen I would do none of these things.
 
And why should his pecker smell funny...clean woman = clean, non smelly pecker.

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You ever have a girl's boob in your hand, and it's like holding a bag of sand?
 
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However she doesn't want to hire a PI as it can be costly. So, is there a way she can catch her husband? Maybe using some kind of device to track his husband's movements? Any suggs? TIA!

i certainly hope you're a chick because what kind of man (especially the woman's brother) would ask around on the internet about how to spy on someone just because his sister is acting typically neurotic - like your average woman? quit being a sissy, grow a pair of balls and ask the guy for fucks sakes.

"hey, i've had a weird feeling lately. you cheating on my sister? because if so, i'll kill you with my bare hands" should be sufficient to read his eyes.

the fact that some of you were recommending planting lojacks in his car and keyloggers on his computer totally is pathetic. fairies.
 
HustlinHard said:
So if she is planning to use any of these gadgets, spy methods or underhanded techniques to figure out the answer, then she better already have a DAMN GOOD REASON to believe that he's cheating. Because if she goes through with something like this behind his back and it turns out he was being completely honest, then she is the one who broke the trust and the relationship will NEVER be the same. I would be surprised if the marriage lasted very long afterward.
This -- 100%.

I would be pissed if someone put a keylogger on my machine. That alone would be enough for me to break up with her. Most keyloggers get picked up by virus scanners anyway.

What is her reasoning for all of this? Maybe she just needs something to do during the day instead of watch soap operas so she made one up in her own life. She won't be the first woman to invent drama.
 
I guess I'll be the first person to say that he is probably cheating, unfortunately. I don't think women's intuition is often wrong on this big stuff... and adultery is human nature and happens way more than anyone wants to admit.

A scorpion asks a frog to carry him across a river. The frog is afraid of being stung, but the scorpion reassures him that if it stung the frog, the frog would sink and the scorpion would drown as well. The frog then agrees; nevertheless, in mid-river, the scorpion stings him, dooming the two of them. When asked why, the scorpion explains, "I'm a scorpion; it's my nature."
 
i certainly hope you're a chick because what kind of man (especially the woman's brother) would ask around on the internet about how to spy on someone just because his sister is acting typically neurotic - like your average woman? quit being a sissy, grow a pair of balls and ask the guy for fucks sakes.

"hey, i've had a weird feeling lately. you cheating on my sister? because if so, i'll kill you with my bare hands" should be sufficient to read his eyes.

the fact that some of you were recommending planting lojacks in his car and keyloggers on his computer totally is pathetic. fairies.
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most of us have cheated and a few have been cheated on. i've unfortuantely been on both ends of the spectrum. i found out thru her cell phone bill...called the guy and gave him my 2cents.
 
She needs to just fucking ask him. No need to spy on him. IMO cheating is a symptom, not a cause. If she can't even talk to him, they have bigger problems than him sticking his dick somewhere else. And she'd better be using condoms if she suspects this.