I'm such a fucking looser, please help me!

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James_Clarke

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So I was sitting in a bus today, listening to music, thinking about <anything> and then SHE walked in. I was like dam yea! she was like hmm maybe and then I realized... I am such a fucking looser that I can't even pull a move on her! When it comes down to women I lack in skills and confidence.

I never had a girlfriend and never had sex. I'm only 19 though, so I can still catch up if I try hard.

So now I'm here bitching about my life, asking for advice.
 


Gather up your confidence and give her an ultimatum:

"Ayyy girl... so when you gonna let me tap that?"

She will say yes or no... and you will come closer to becoming a man regardless.
 
Just go say hi next time. No matter what happens you'll feel 100x better than not doing anything. And most of the time, if don't come across as a douche, you'll make great headway. Approach anxiety sucks but it fades somewhat the more you put yourself out there...
 
You're asking wickedfire for relationship advice? The only TNA most of these guys here have ever seen is from the boob threads.
 
It's commonly believed that Hugh Hefner lost his virginity at 21.

Hopefully you man up and make up for lost time like he did.
 
Be a complete gentlemen and a complete asshole at same time.

The hate/love feelings reminds them of there own fathers and they will come in line.

But one basic advice is just to stop hyper focusing on that shit and get focused on your paper chase.

Bitches love coming along for the money ride so make that your focus and bitches will fall in line....

You will always lose money chasing women , but you will never lose women chasing money....

focus ........
 
James_Clarke said:
So I was sitting in a bus today, listening to music, thinking about <anything> and then SHE walked in. I was like dam yea! she was like hmm maybe and then I realized... I am such a fucking looser that I can't even pull a move on her! When it comes down to women I lack in skills and confidence.

I never had a girlfriend and never had sex. I'm only 19 though, so I can still catch up if I try hard.

So now I'm here bitching about my life, asking for advice.
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I strongly believe confidence comes from achieved goals, however if you attempt big goals initially, you will fail lose lose confidence.

What you want is to take a vow that you will improve yourself in the long run. Set yourself small challenges that scare you a bit, and make sure you complete them. Once you realise those are easy, aim higher.

It isn't a magical solution, but I'm 24 now and 100x better than I was at 18, just because I've slowly realised what I can do if I want to.

And not doing anything is a failure in itself, which will lower your confidence. So whatever you do, do something. Ask her for the time, ask her where a certain stop is. Seems scary at first, but once you realise how easy it is you can take it to the next level.
 
James_Clarke said:
So I was sitting in a bus today, listening to music, thinking about <anything> and then SHE walked in. I was like dam yea! she was like hmm maybe and then I realized... I am such a fucking looser that I can't even pull a move on her! When it comes down to women I lack in skills and confidence.

I never had a girlfriend and never had sex. I'm only 19 though, so I can still catch up if I try hard.

So now I'm here bitching about my life, asking for advice.
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Throw spaghetti against the wall and watch a couple pieces stick. It's a numbers game, just like affiliate marketing.
 
roclafamilia said:
boobs ftw...


and tequila is the solution to your problem...
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This.

I got over my approach anxiety by getting drunk to the point that I don't give a fuck and trying. It then occurred to me that if I had the confidence to talk after a few shots, I could probably pull the same thing off sober.
 
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The best and easiest thing I have found is to start with a "neg" aka a negative comment about something. Don't be a dick, but say something in a joking manner. Like "wow that bag looks like a gucci knockoff" or "that bag is fucking huge! what do you keep in there?" or "my grandma has that same dress!"

Obviously these aren't the best (it has to be organic), but this should give you an idea.

I also recommend reading this blog: Roissy in DC

God's speed, bro
 
Magic Hat said:
The best and easiest thing I have found is to start with a "neg" aka a negative comment about something. Don't be a dick, but say something in a joking manner. Like "wow that bag looks like a gucci knockoff" or "that bag is fucking huge! what do you keep in there?" or "my grandma has that same dress!"

Obviously these aren't the best (it has to be organic), but this should give you an idea.

I also recommend reading this blog: Roissy in DC

God's speed, bro
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That's just fucking retarded. It's a girl not a landing page FFS. OP just get a hooker and practice.
 
roclafamilia said:
boobs ftw...


and tequila is the solution to your problem...
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depends what kind of woman. Most women will not really be into it if you are completely drunk. A couple of shots (and chewing gum) should do it. Just start some small talk and build sexual tension.
 
this
Garrett said:
She will say yes or no... and you will come closer to becoming a man regardless.
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and this

stussy5555 said:
Throw spaghetti against the wall and watch a couple pieces stick. It's a numbers game, just like affiliate marketing.
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probably the best advice you'll ever get, here or elsewhere
 
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