In order for you to subsidize anyone you'd have to not be a broke ass.
As for the rest, employer controlled health insurance is worse for workers. Less choice, less mobility in the economy, etc. Employers would be able to raise wages and likely would due to wage pressure if people controlled their own insurance
I had my own insurance for years when working cubicle jobs. Up until recently, I was able to get a high deductible policy for under $150/month. Those policies have since been outlawed.