I get nervous when surrounded by whites
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This "I don't belong" thing is something I'll never really understand, at least not when it comes to skin color. I guess I'd feel like I don't belong in a bar where everyone is rocking long beards and is full of tats and smoking a pipe and listening to ZZ Top. I might also feel like I don't belong in a bar where Dresden14 hangs out and snorts off white power through his right nostril.
I'm white, but I never had anything close to the feelings you describe whenever I happened to be in an mostly black/yellow/brown/whatever bar or club or venue. And I've been out a lot in my life. I seriously can't grasp how someone could feel "awkward" based on the color of the skin of the people they are surrounded by.
This one popular hip hop club in downtown Orlando comes to mind, I forget the name. I was in town by myself for a couple days and didn't know a soul, heard about this party at this club on the radio, and just went there that night. Turns out I was one of maybe 5 white guys and everybody else was black, but that didn't bother me one bit. I didn't feel or behave any differently than otherwise and I had a GREAT time.
And that's just one example.
I actually hooked up with this really hot girl that night (forgot her name too of course) and became friends with a guy who was hanging out alone in the city as well. We ended up going out together the night after, before I had to fly out. We're thousands of miles apart right now but we've become good friends (the guy, not the girl).
Both are black. So what?
i think its funny how you have people whom hate racism, then people whom are for separatism like myself - but then you got those people inbetween. You can detect it in several of the responses here; but that "white guilt" prevents you to freely release your feelings. Remember fuckers, it's only the past 40 years through mass media promotion that makes you feel the way you do. As for 
going to black clubs, i hope you get your ass beat traitor. Maybe you can find yourself a nice black beauty and make lil ape babies and wonder why the kids are ugly as fuck. Fuckin eminem wannabe, lulz for days.
going to black clubs, i hope you get your ass beat traitor. Maybe you can find yourself a nice black beauty and make lil ape babies and wonder why the kids are ugly as fuck. Fuckin eminem wannabe, lulz for days.
i think its funny how you have people whom hate racism, then people whom are for separatism like myself - but then you got those people inbetween. You can detect it in several of the responses here; but that "white guilt" prevents you to freely release your feelings. Remember fuckers, it's only the past 40 years through mass media promotion that makes you feel the way you do. As for
Basic.
I understand and it's a shame it has to be that way. I have a friend that recently went to party in Atlanta, he's black but said it's weird going to Atlanta because he was so used to being around white people all of the time back at home.
People are just different in their thoughts but you should never feel nervous if you are with five guy friends. Come on.
i think its funny how you have people whom hate racism, then people whom are for separatism like myself - but then you got those people inbetween. You can detect it in several of the responses here; but that "white guilt" prevents you to freely release your feelings. Remember fuckers, it's only the past 40 years through mass media promotion that makes you feel the way you do. As for
So you buy services from Indians on a forum owned by a Jew, live in a city where less than half the people are white and that has a Spanish name, vacation in the Caribbean, and are planning to move to Hawaii?
So you buy services from Indians on a forum owned by a Jew, live in a city where less than half the people are white and that has a Spanish name, vacation in the Caribbean, and are planning to move to Hawaii?
rofl
Just in case this is serious...
As a white dude, its the same exact way when I'm surrounded by a bunch of black dudes. Even if they aren't paying attention to you, there is something in your gut that says 'Keep ready', just in case.
It's a weird thing, and likely stems from tens of thousands of years spent protecting your tribe from the tribe across the river, you know?
"Those people are different. War time."
Evolution can be a slow cunt sometimes.
That being said, I actually find myself getting the same feeling around groups of white guys as well sometimes. I'm as white as can be, but I don't trust white people. Especially shady looking younger white people.
I just learned that, while only in my mid-20's, I'm racist against all young males. Hmm... The more you learn.
Racist isn't the word you're looking for. But there is a biological reason as you get older you become wary of younger males. Watch anything on Animal Planet and you'll see it's always a group of young bucks trying to assert their dominance and take what's yours (your females, your territory, your property etc).
In fact, anyone that thinks they might be racist ask yourself if you would feel less comfortable around a group of 40+ year old blacks, or a group of young whites looking for trouble. Although it's natural to be wary towards people from "other tribes", years of evolution have taught us the biggest concern is upstart young males of any stripe.