Great suggestions.
I still don't know what to do.
I am leaning towards using her for all she's worth (aka social proof) and keeping the videos private. (for now)
Don't be bitter and put shit out there like that. Just realize she's a slut bag who doesn't give 2 shits about you. Then nail her whenever you are bored and don't call her otherwise.
Have a kit-kat and let it go. There's more strippers than you can shake a brass pole at out there.
Maybe try selling it to a porn site?
I don't know if any of these sites pay for traffic, but you could try them out...
redtube.com
youporn.com
pornotube.com
At the least, you could browse around to find out what they use to monitize their videos and use it for your 1girl1kitkat site...