well
the way I see it is this: not only I'm unemployed, I'm also pretty badly in debt.
What you have to do is say to yourself that you WILL get it going (not just arbi, btw), no matter what. Because once you have your focus and determination, nothing else really matters. Because if you want something badly enough, you WILL get it.
You will work 20 hours a day, 7 days a week, but you WILL get it. Where there is a will, there is a way, like they say. It may take a few months, but eat chicken noodle soup, borrow money, do what you have to do, but stay on course.
People fail, because they focus on what they DON'T want, instead of what they want. Essentially, people fail because they don't want something badly enough. That doesn't mean failure will not come your way if you're focused on your goal, it's a matter if you REACT to that failure or you keep focused on the goal. That's the key between ultimate failure and ultimate success.