Yeah I know my wife is gonna do it first and I'm gonna eat along with her etc and everything to see if I can do it without surgery. Half the time when we go out to eat I'm not hungry but really because of my hours working in this business its the only real time I get to spend with her after she comes home from work but we are working on it.
If you smoke, you have to stop. Smoking + diabetes = fatal. My experience with stopping is that you can try all of the programs and drugs you want, but if you don't really want to stop, then they become crutches you can blame if you don't quit.
When you want something, you will get it. The human mind is incredibly powerful when it is set on accomplishing something.
Likewise, if you do any binge drinking, you have to stop.
Also, if you're not supplementing at all, you need to start. You probably don't get enough sunlight for your skin to manufacture the amount of D3 you need, and D3 is crucial. It's cheap to buy some 1000 IU D3 and start getting more D3 than you get now.
And you absolutely have to replace all sweetened drinks with water first, and fresh fruit juice second.
If you can make those changes in the next 6 months to a year, you can turn this around in decent time. Not just control your diabetes, but start to improve your health in a noticeable and meaningful way.
If you have any questions PM me. I've been down a similar road.
It's my personal bias, but avoid doctors who want to prescribe drugs to regulate what you can change with your diet. You have to make lifestyle changes. You will love it once you start doing it. You'll wonder why you didn't do it years before.
You'll wonder why everyone doesn't do it.
/advice rant