BUMP WHEN HIGH
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Hey fuckers... In need of some advice
I have a good friend (10+ years) whom I have been friends with since before even discovering the giggletwig. (been sparking for about 3 years) and all the guy ever does is mooch my stuff.
He will call and say "wanna hang?" when really that means "I'm going to come over and smoke your stuff, and never EVER throw down or match up later. This has been going on for about 10...11 months.
I go through an Oz every 5 weeks, and out of that I would say he burns about 1/4.
I don't want to believe he is purposely taking advantage of me but DAMN. He knows he isn't throwing down... He isn't stupid.
I have way more living expenses than him, and I just can't afford to smoke him out 4-5 times A week. ( he lives with his parents and they pay his bills)
maybe he just expects it because this is the way he was brought up? I dunno.
I know I have to talk to him about it, and I am losing sleep over it.:.
Am I too nice? Sorry about the pussy post, but I'm blazed and thinking...
I have a good friend (10+ years) whom I have been friends with since before even discovering the giggletwig. (been sparking for about 3 years) and all the guy ever does is mooch my stuff.
He will call and say "wanna hang?" when really that means "I'm going to come over and smoke your stuff, and never EVER throw down or match up later. This has been going on for about 10...11 months.
I go through an Oz every 5 weeks, and out of that I would say he burns about 1/4.
I don't want to believe he is purposely taking advantage of me but DAMN. He knows he isn't throwing down... He isn't stupid.
I have way more living expenses than him, and I just can't afford to smoke him out 4-5 times A week. ( he lives with his parents and they pay his bills)
maybe he just expects it because this is the way he was brought up? I dunno.
I know I have to talk to him about it, and I am losing sleep over it.:.
Am I too nice? Sorry about the pussy post, but I'm blazed and thinking...
Next time just say "Oh I dont have any weed, you should bring some" if u wanna do it "nicely". If it was me i'd say listen you mooch bring some weed i realized all i do is smoke you up and its bugging me.
brief tangent: when i moved out to Cali, i landed in a house full of beach bum surfer dude metal heads. these guys loved to party, and it was awesome living there, but they were pretty much the same -- i'd buy a 30 pack on Tuesday night, and by the time i got home Wednesday all my beer was gone. i'd buy a fat ounce, and they'd help me smoke it, every couple of days one of them would be like "hey man, can i buy a $5 bag off you?" and then smoke me down, but i like to roll 2gram joints, like ten times a day, so i knew i was getting short changed.
i was really conflicted about it for a while. on the one hand, i could have stopped buying the beer and stopped rolling the joints, but i was having lots of fun living there, and i didn't want to fuck with the social dynamic we had by being "that guy" and getting stingy. on the other hand, over the 3 months that i lived there, i spent WAYYYYYY more money than i should have, and i have nothing to show for it.
in the end, i finally came to a conclusion: fuck bums. if someone is nice and fun and friendly thats awesome, and i love to surround myself by cool people, but just because someone wants to hang out with me doesn't mean i should have to give them anything. if you have a friend who might be mooching, and it makes you even a little uncomfortable, then cut him off. if you have to "pretend" to be "out of weed", that's cool, but either way once you stop supplying for a few days, he should get the message. whether he chooses to man up or bitch out, at that point, is really up to him, but his being a bum is getting in the way of your friendship.
my 2 cents.
edit -- oh yeah, bump
Yesterday I picked up an OZ from a guy I havent gotten it from - my usually guy didn't have any at the time and no answer on when more was coming -
so I went with somebody else who talked this shit up soo much
well I'm now the proud owner of 28g of outdoor motherfuckin dirt weed. I smoked like a 3g blunt this morning and im really not even really high. schwaggtastic. And right after i bought it - the other guy shows up with an ounce of purple shit and he only wanted $230 an OZ. FML
so I went with somebody else who talked this shit up soo much
he claims. And at $40 bucks cheaper than what I usually pay for a zip - I said what the hell.I GUARANTEE ITS GONNA BE BETTER THAN WHAT UR USED TO SMOKIN'
well I'm now the proud owner of 28g of outdoor motherfuckin dirt weed. I smoked like a 3g blunt this morning and im really not even really high. schwaggtastic. And right after i bought it - the other guy shows up with an ounce of purple shit and he only wanted $230 an OZ. FML
bump, kind of. it almost feels like cheating smoking this schwag. just spend 30 minutes breaking up half an oz and my fingers hurt and I found 12 seeds so far. SEEDS IN CALI WEED = WTF.
Addy + Weed = problem solved. Now I can actually smoke and still get shit done. Fuck though, I was clean for like 2 months and now I'm doin this shit again..
Anyways... BUMP.
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Anyways... BUMP.
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Damn I've missed this thread. I'm ending my t-break about a week early, and am on my way over to a friends to get stoned.
@thunderlips that's completely disrespectful for a someone (especially someone who calls themself your frined) to mooch off you. When smoking with my friends we all understand that we will be evenly matching. Or if someone is temporarily dry they'll get smoked up but will pay back the favor the next time we chill.
And as far as the smoking for productivity goes, iPwn is 100% on target. You need high quality shit. Cali weed is the best, CO weed is pretty good too + we get a lot of stuff from cali. Also I find that it's best to not smoke as much weed your first smoke of the day.
And wtf happened to rogerrabbit?
@thunderlips that's completely disrespectful for a someone (especially someone who calls themself your frined) to mooch off you. When smoking with my friends we all understand that we will be evenly matching. Or if someone is temporarily dry they'll get smoked up but will pay back the favor the next time we chill.
And as far as the smoking for productivity goes, iPwn is 100% on target. You need high quality shit. Cali weed is the best, CO weed is pretty good too + we get a lot of stuff from cali. Also I find that it's best to not smoke as much weed your first smoke of the day.
And wtf happened to rogerrabbit?
