almost got me... cruel indeed but lulz.
OP. You're going to realize (the hard way it seems) that everyone here has an agenda and obligation to their business to make it grow just like you do. If we all posted this type of call out this place would be no better than DP or WaFo. While you might think some peeps here will be all gaga over getting some link juice from your site by giving you free content with some links, it's still a spammy way to get people involved.
When/How do you get paid from all these efforts? Is your big payday coming from the actual fight night and you get a % of the ticket sales/viewership/door money etc? I don't care to know exact details as much as help you understand what your end objective is re money + this place. I think even a tiny budget would get you a lot more than most of your bum marketing efforts here will, wifey pics included.
Would find it really difficult to do what you are doing with no budget and trying to get wicked fire members to stand behind you, or trade your ad spots for servicing etc. Have you thought about a low budget effective localized offline campaign or do you have any material out yet? If the fight is happening in a major city (which it is) and you need to generate ticket sales more than online/TV viewership, you'll probably have more success doing localized stuff imo.
Further, not sure what your model for this is, but I've worked with FAME and the
WBFF - check out how they do their marketing, and how they monetize over all, it's not the exact same demo but close. Their local shows are aimed locally, and attract a really nice crowd + door money + sponsorship of the event re booth sales, hanging banners, putting their credits/logo's on show guides, etc. You might generate quite a bit from simply offering a nice media kit with ad spots IN your show to complimentary biz owners locally that are after your demo.
EDIT: If you want Paul Dillet's personal contact info I can hook you two up maybe some cross promo might happen for you, and he has tons of contacts to press/mags/talent etc. reach out if you'd like or simply get in touch with him and tell him Norb from NCmedia sent you and tell him what you have on the go.