A Perfect Dissection of What American Women Have Become
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Any guy who has been with girls from eastern europe or SOME parts of Asia (I do NOT count most thai/filipina semi-hookers) here, now how infinitely more pleasent it is to be around them than 90% of western girls.
Before I moved to Bangkok (home of the vapid and golddigging), I briefly dated girls from Poland and Lithuania and was that something different. Being used to dating northern european women, I had almost forgotten that you could truly and easily enjoy the whole dating process.
I think the guy had it down pretty well. When I was dating northern-euro women, it felt like some strange competition, full of strategy, feigns, calculated moves, annoyance, some contempt, lust, but very little spontaneous joy, anticipitation and warmth.
Dating those eastern euro girls was so easy, enjoyable and pleasent that it was a real eye opener. It felt natural and wholesome without all the stupid bs. Just me liking her and her liking me and very little games to destroy that.
You're missing out if you think that modern western dating is what male-female courtship should be about.
Before I moved to Bangkok (home of the vapid and golddigging), I briefly dated girls from Poland and Lithuania and was that something different. Being used to dating northern european women, I had almost forgotten that you could truly and easily enjoy the whole dating process.
I think the guy had it down pretty well. When I was dating northern-euro women, it felt like some strange competition, full of strategy, feigns, calculated moves, annoyance, some contempt, lust, but very little spontaneous joy, anticipitation and warmth.
Dating those eastern euro girls was so easy, enjoyable and pleasent that it was a real eye opener. It felt natural and wholesome without all the stupid bs. Just me liking her and her liking me and very little games to destroy that.
You're missing out if you think that modern western dating is what male-female courtship should be about.
This is how it should be, and was when I was in college. But once you start dating corporate girls who have been exposed to the media brainwashing, dating becomes like the author said, "a chess match."
Yes, yes yes. So true.
This annoys me so much. Characters like Barney in How I met your mother, even Joey in friends, all these guys who "sleep with lots of women" constantly lie to them, have really low actual self esteem as they never show their true selves to women. And they are the role models for anyone who wants to be good with women.
Pick up artists? 90% are the same. Lie to women. Make up interesting stories to tell. Learn lines for shit tests that someone else invented. But DON'T for gods sake show your true self.
It's so fucking nice realising that being true to yourself and just being honest is the best way to pick up women. It might not work with most of them, but who cares, the ones who do like it will be good matches to you. And you don't have to constantly stress about whether what you say will lower or raise their "attraction levels"
This shit irks me to no end. Just off the top of my head, I can think of several new shows where the heroine or one of her friends is constantly figuring out how to get the most she can from her current sex toy before blowing him off.
Then, you have plenty of the same shit, where the heroine is talking with her friends about how to cheat on her husband or whatever without getting caught. And what's worse, is that her friends back up and help her justify the cheating and lying. This is the kind of shit young girls have been growing up on for the past 10+ years. It's no wonder they act they way they do. "Men should serve me no matter how I act, and if you don't, 'fuck you,' I'll cheat on you and use you until I replace you."
Then, you have the opposite for young men, who are either being fed the PUA school of thought, or the "typical guy" portrayed in the media, the one who is a complete, submissive beta that bends and caters to his women's craziness and thanks her for being told to go sleep on the couch while she sex-texts his best friend from the other room.
The whole thing is just sad, really.
If the chick market is sending you negative signals (ignoring you), it is time to make an adjustment if you wish to continue being relevant in the chick marketplace. Otherwise I guess your genes will die out like nature intended.
What I am looking for is that tattoo on top of her butt cheeks, that is all the information I need to pursue my fundamental right to do the right thing, the rest is history after a few drinks..
It's the way it was always supposed to be; simple and honest attraction between two people. The women that I met from Eastern Europe when I was younger were some of the most normal, psychologically healthy women I've ever met. It was a genuine pleasure to interact with them. The typical western female, on the other hand, has been completely brainwashed into what she thinks she's supposed to be.
American girls are like hookers who are completely dead inside. Yes, you can "game" them and have sex with them at the end of the night, but can you really "connect" with them? No. They don't know how because they have been completely hollowed out inside. There is no "there" there. They are a product of the machine, a beautiful outside with nothing but Cosmo tactics as standard operating procedure. No wonder almost every relationship ends in single motherhood, cheating, divorce, or unhappiness.
The author of that article nailed it. And the vast majority of the tools protesting in this thread and trying to call him a "beta"(nothing sounds gayer than using terms like that) are the ones whose sole mission is to use American chicks for the spiritually dead hookers they are. They like the status quo and don't want to change it, because they aren't after an emotional or personal connection. They're just straight pump and dump chumps.
What is the name for this new demographic? It's different than bachelor/playboy/seduction community.
It's similar, but with the attitude of the mom's basement demographic. The "digital nomad", world-traveling, english teaching American without much self esteem now projecting back onto women -- specifically American women though.
Notice how the demographic applauds the article in the comments.
It's similar, but with the attitude of the mom's basement demographic. The "digital nomad", world-traveling, english teaching American without much self esteem now projecting back onto women -- specifically American women though.
Notice how the demographic applauds the article in the comments.
So what you are saying is the more communist the country, the more you prefer their women?
Mein neger bitte, you counter what you perceive as personal attacks by making a personal generalization as well? You must be an american woman or a feminized man.
The author is a whiny, entitled narcissist who is horrified that he might have to make an actual effort to bed a girl that doesn't need a green card from him. Pony up men this feminist shit storm is being fueled by both camps.
Contradictions:
"Women are obsessed with the way they look"
"I won't date anyone that isn't model pretty with a tight body"
"Women are career obsessed"
"Woman wants me to pay for dinner? Gold digger."
"Women are shallow"
"2/10 point elbows would not bang"
So let me get this straight: you want a perfectly beautiful woman but she shouldn't let on the monumental effort it takes to maintain herself, you want woman to quietly be financially independent but she should never take any pride in that fact.
Ok GENERALIZING but there are shallow, vapid assholes on both sides. And there are people still comfortably embodying their gender on both sides too.
Shallow, souless corporate girl puppet meet entitled, whiny metrosexual man-child. Please don't have babies.
Me? Give me a guy with his balls in tact, a guy that doesn't wax his eyebrows, a guy that doesn't cry at the drop of a hat. A strong silent type, has integrity, takes no shit and takes care of business. I'll make him fried chicken and take him to bed.
When did feminism become a woman being more like a man and a man being more like a woman? To me feminism is reveling in being a woman and the awesome natural power that comes with that. It's different from a man's power. Feminine women are privileged, the fairer sex, they don't have to pursue they are pursued. Taken care of because they offer what their men desire... Both sides have their responsibilities but the benefits of the pairing far outweigh the effort involved
Men:
Protect your woman.
Be the breadwinner.
Be a good father if there are children.
Be affectionate and love her.
Women:
Take care of the domestic shit.
Be attractive, don't let yourself go, men are visual.
Be a good mother if there are children.
Love and support your man, don't do anything to shame or emasculate him.
Easy peasy.
Contradictions:
"Women are obsessed with the way they look"
"I won't date anyone that isn't model pretty with a tight body"
"Women are career obsessed"
"Woman wants me to pay for dinner? Gold digger."
"Women are shallow"
"2/10 point elbows would not bang"
So let me get this straight: you want a perfectly beautiful woman but she shouldn't let on the monumental effort it takes to maintain herself, you want woman to quietly be financially independent but she should never take any pride in that fact.
Ok GENERALIZING but there are shallow, vapid assholes on both sides. And there are people still comfortably embodying their gender on both sides too.
Shallow, souless corporate girl puppet meet entitled, whiny metrosexual man-child. Please don't have babies.
Me? Give me a guy with his balls in tact, a guy that doesn't wax his eyebrows, a guy that doesn't cry at the drop of a hat. A strong silent type, has integrity, takes no shit and takes care of business. I'll make him fried chicken and take him to bed.
When did feminism become a woman being more like a man and a man being more like a woman? To me feminism is reveling in being a woman and the awesome natural power that comes with that. It's different from a man's power. Feminine women are privileged, the fairer sex, they don't have to pursue they are pursued. Taken care of because they offer what their men desire... Both sides have their responsibilities but the benefits of the pairing far outweigh the effort involved
Men:
Protect your woman.
Be the breadwinner.
Be a good father if there are children.
Be affectionate and love her.
Women:
Take care of the domestic shit.
Be attractive, don't let yourself go, men are visual.
Be a good mother if there are children.
Love and support your man, don't do anything to shame or emasculate him.
Easy peasy.
