I get nervous when surrounded by whites

I don't think you are the only black guy who feels this way. . .

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You were courted by 5 white guys. . . . nice
 


Hello friend,

I think it may be natural reaction for some people who no white to be scare when around lot white people and no because reason racist. It because in past white people like to steal land from people of other race and make them slave.

So it possible people who may be slave of white people in a past life may have natural reaction to be scare of white people in this life after reincarnate.

Good luck bro
 
Lets just get along OK.

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I lived in Chattanooga for 4 years. The number of black people in Chattanooga was much higher then the number of black people where I was raised in Olympia Washington. Also, growing up in the hippie heaven that Olympia was, I learned how terrible it is to hate someone because of their skin color.

I always felt terrible about getting nervous when I was in a group of black people. Especially if it was unintended. Like, a group of people walk in while I was paying for gas at the Kangaroo, or something.

I never met a black person in Chattanooga that was a particular asshole. After spending a little time talking with someone, they were always pretty cool.

After a while, I realized that my problem was not that they were black so much as the culture the were portraying. It was the "thugs" that made me nervous. It was the act they were putting on. If I were standing next to a group of smiling black people I would not get nervous. In fact, I would engage them. Chat with them. If I was standing next to a group of thugs, looking intimidating, I got nervous. Avoided eye contact. Stuff like that.

When I realized that it wasn't so much the skin color that was the problem I stopped feeling bad.

Consider that the problem is not so much the skin color you are afraid of, as much as the front they are putting up.
 
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or

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Either way, lulz.
 
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actually, you make a good point. how would YOU feel if you wound up in an all black bar? even assuming each of them were nice and friendly, that shit would be mad awkward for you. you'd try to "fit in" and act like you're all friends but you'd kind of always feel a bit like the odd man out. That's how I felt anyway.

No, I wouldn't feel awkward at all.

replying to troll thread.
 
If you ever find yourself in a situation where you feel uncomfortably outnumbered by people of a different culture/race the smartest thing to do is look them directly in the eye one by one and act as if they are the ones that are out of place, then ignore them. Instinct will tell them you are either a cop or crazy so nobody will fuck with you. I've split tested this shit in some pretty dangerous places in my life and it works every time.
 
If you ever find yourself in a situation where you feel uncomfortably outnumbered by people of a different culture/race the smartest thing to do is look them directly in the eye one by one and act as if they are the ones that are out of place, then ignore them. Instinct will tell them you are either a cop or crazy so nobody will fuck with you. I've split tested this shit in some pretty dangerous places in my life and it works every time.

Good advice. My approach has always been to not look paranoid.