Ive had a strong tin foil hat crammed onto my cranium the past few weeks especially, and remember a number of your posts as of late BeerNuts.....and have agreed and respected them for what that is worth.
But as someone mentioned earlier, for your own sanity don't let this get played out in your mind. Shit happens, coincidence or not, you can debate, negate, conjure up ideas for days....it aint worth it though.
No matter what resolution you come to, if you spend too much time worrying, wondering, etc...it just isnt worth it.
Change up your passwords, get a new debit card, and forget it. Life's fucked up, but we are all in it together brah.
Happy holidays boss