I hate seeing all of the comments on articles like that spreading the idea that servers everywhere in the U.S. only make $2.13/hr when they really make that in less than half of the states.
California has no server wage or tip credit, so the girl in the article was making at least $8/hr + tips. Servers make at least $10.24/hr + tips if in San Francisco, $9.04 + tips in Washington, $8.80 + tips in Oregon.
When I was sixteen years old working as a busboy/waiter at a buffet I made $80 a night in tips alone and that's not even a real waiter where they're getting 15% of $150.
I bet I'd make $200-300 a night at a decent restaurant. It's not hard.
Know how many minutes it's been since you've visited each table
crouch so you're eye level when you talk
If they tell you their name when you give them yours use it often, make up a memorable way to for them to remember yours.
Focus on hot points when engaging them (like if they're wearing a shirt that looks new or a nice necklace) "I've been eyeing a shirt just like that at Nordstroms, man it looks so good when on a person I'm just going to pull the trigger now and buy it! So, my name is Ethan, I'll be your personal server today... Tell me, yada yada... "
Say please and thank you, learn how to tell a joke
Refill when they're around 40%
Ask them if they'll like a doggy bag. Don't ask if they want to take it home, ask for a doggy bag. People love doggies.
Thank them for being such wonderful guests.
Leave a little gift of some sort. Maybe a coupon if it's that type of place or throw them a free drink if you can.
Or just do what the banker suggested and get a better job. The only waiters I see who bitch about their pay are people who are emotionally lazy.
Fuck em