Another Day Another Problem: Stalker, Harasser, All Around Asshole

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Feb 1, 2013
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The Swamps
Another Day, Another Story:

For the past two months, a close friend has dealt daily with obsessive levels of harassment and property damage due to his current girlfriend's bastard of an ex.

"Wallstreet, it can't be that bad".

It can be and it is. Let's call him "Sam".

First off, this lowlife has spent 3-6 hours a day calling up to 20 times an hour both my friend's cellphone and his girlfriend. His harassment includes threats, disgusting pictures of him mutilating his body, namecalling from whore to digging into my friend's girlfriend's past mental illness and eating disorders. He is dedicated to say the least. There have even been messages that read "Ohh, you & (insert all the names of our group in a room talking) are having a fun time" that is both creepy and seven levels of wtf. He works at a Hess station and does nothing besides fester all day and lash out. He has just last night slashed my friend's tires.

"But why don't you call the police?"

We all have. Multiple times. His father is a police officer and is thus smiling and comfortable under the blue umbrella from the brewing shitstorm. My friend is at the end of his patience. The girl is genuinely terrified and I witness her crying everyday I see them for a new offense. This guy is creative.

Of course flashes of Mob movies and other similiar temptations have crossed our minds. As young adults, we understand we need to think logically.

But could you imagine someone stalking you, destroying your peace of mind on a daily basis for TWO MONTHS? It reads like a bad horror film.

I wanted to ask forum members what they thought. Especially considering efforts have just gone against a brick wall. He has tried changing his number and her number, reporting etc. etc. to no avail.

What are we/he to do at this point?
 


Does she have a restraining order yet? He sounds like a time bomb.
 
girlfriend's past mental illness and eating disorders

Well... she sounds like a winner.

I would probably advise the friend to drop her. Crazy girl with crazy stalker ex is just too much drama.

Also, is your friend very poor? Because, a little bit of money can usually solve these types of things one way or another.
 
Where I live a restraining order is a civil suit where a judge decides. No police involved, and there doesn't have to be a police report.

Washington State law allows for a person to file a civil case in court, asking a judge to grant an order to protect them from another person whose behavior is abusive, threatening, exploitive or seriously alarming. The primary purpose is to order the other person or “respondent” to not contact or harm you, the “petitioner.”

Document the times you've called the police and whatever stuff the idiot does to show the frequency and it should be over. Doubt the cop wants to look like a douche if his son is violating a restraining order and gets locked up.

Even better you catch the guy breaking the restraining order and beat the shit out of him, because you can say it was defense, then watch him get arrested after having his ass whooped..
 
maybe you need to go to your state police office not your local police because you will get more done with your state police then local and make a report that way they would start watching this fella you need to start a paper trail on him this way you can get him lock up.
 
It sounds like 80% of everyone involved in this fiasco are all little fucked up and dysfunctional.
 
He needs a visit.

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Most obsessional fools like him are highly accessible to fear, so hand him his ass in a hat. Like this, y0h:

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Wallstreet, threaten this guy with a google page documenting all of what has happened and let his asshole cop father know that his son's life will be forever tarnished with good enough seo. Dad may well be concerned enough to talk sense into son.

And when you say "the swamps" - any chance you live in Florida?
 
^ That

Publicly shame him. Have every one notify him that all further contact will be recorded and displayed publicly.
 
Yes definitely call the police, they are highly incentivized to prevent crime. They do it very efficiently. Just keep calling.
 
If he's rational, he'll stop fucking around when it costs him more than he's willing to pay.

If he's crazy, he's willing to pay anything.

Either way, you do it or you don't, but threats aren't going to solve your problem.
 
If your documentation is sound (an not illegal, as there are some fucked up laws surrounding that)

Lawyer up.

Courts can help where police won't.

And move away if you are in a small town where Mr. police chief holds too much power.

Get a different number.

Kill the landline if must, get a new mobile number.

And if you already have a restraining order, call the cops every time he goes against it
Document the cop's reaction (to prove the blue umbrella) --> Lawyer

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"But why don't you call the police?"

We all have. Multiple times. His father is a police officer and is thus smiling and comfortable under the blue umbrella from the brewing shitstorm.

Which branch of law enforcement did you call? If you called the local city/town police try calling your state police and let them know what's going on.