Lost my motivation and my way, need to start from the beginning

Jameel

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I screwed my life up pretty well and I probably have to start over from the bottom with AM / anything online in general.

Probably one step above article whoring on DP and WF.

Anyone throw me any bones?

Anything would help, pm me if you like.
 


Background, experience? Trust me bro, investing some time to enlighten us would help.

2006-2009

Blackhat SEO for page rank to sell backlinks
Craigslist before it got hectic with re-captcha and PVA
Dating affiliate, Adult affiliate
Survey sites, celebs, shock videos, Yahoo answers, etc
Membership site at one point
Software creation
Consulting, email/skype
Mid-twenties let the money go to my head and started mismanaging things debt piled up went broke moved around. I wake up lost and trying to get my life back but everything I used to get started back in 2006 for example I can't do now like SEO I'm sure has changed since 06 and Craigslist requires PVAs and tons of proxies.

It was all much easier at the since since I had money coming in, clients, and I was generally in some sort of loop on stuff.

Now I'm feeling like a noob on DP "how i make moniez online".
 
Still works.

I paid my last software designer about $5500.00 I have the slightest idea on what I could start a membership site out of now. I need something to get me back into this I'm feeling lost as shit. I was doing this sort of stuff when I have money to throw around and experiment with.
 
Sounds like your way ahead of the curve with other people. I have a similar story, and It's not impossible to climb your way back into the game. My suggestion is don't look for hand outs, and if your serious, start saving every extra dime you have, do you research, and start building something up. You've witnessed what can happen when you don't diversify, so focus on that. Build something that has some longevity, or something you can replicate.
 
Sounds like your way ahead of the curve with other people. I have a similar story, and It's not impossible to climb your way back into the game. My suggestion is don't look for hand outs, and if your serious, start saving every extra dime you have, do you research, and start building something up. You've witnessed what can happen when you don't diversify, so focus on that. Build something that has some longevity, or something you can replicate.

I'm serious, I want nothing more than than to go back to enjoying the life that I loved before this. I re-located at one point across the country and fell flat on my face after putting a years worth of effort into a business. I feel like I'm cursed or something at this point.

I've hit lower than this before at point one let's just say I'm grateful to be sleeping indoors at this point.

I'll take any and everything at this point guidance, advice, a push in the right direction, motivation, a smile, a frown, a middle finger, even a hand out haha.
 
I wouldn't even start to compare yourself to people on DP, most there come across as borderline retarded.

Also 50% of the stuff you listed still works, I either know someone who's making money in that area or I've done it myself in the last 12 months. There's seriously nothing to stop you being a baller again in 12 months time and starting from nothing, even if you're creating fake news stories, fake viral shit and content locking it to build up some seed money.

You already have the knowledge, you already know what works and what doesn't to a degree. Now you just need to tackle the hardest thing of all, your mindset. You can do it, even if right now your telling yourself you can't.

You need to hustle, you need to grind and most of all you need to believe in yourself.
 
I wouldn't even start to compare yourself to people on DP, most there come across as borderline retarded.

Also 50% of the stuff you listed still works, I either know someone who's making money in that area or I've done it myself in the last 12 months. There's seriously nothing to stop you being a baller again in 12 months time and starting from nothing, even if you're creating fake news stories, fake viral shit and content locking it to build up some seed money.

You already have the knowledge, you already know what works and what doesn't to a degree. Now you just need to tackle the hardest thing of all, your mindset. You can do it, even if right now your telling yourself you can't.

You need to hustle, you need to grind and most of all you need to believe in yourself.

I have one idea that I've been milling over about trying and it should be pretty easy to setup/execute. The problem is yeah I'm having this failure anxiety because I've flopped so much in a year 1/2's time.

It would't make a ton of money but yeah seed money or something to get me started.
 
Hit me up on skype: patrickhehejo

I got too many ideas (Software/Membership Websites) and not enough time. Maybe we can do a joint venture or something.

Cheers

Will do! Right now installing skype
 
I paid my last software designer about $5500.00

You could partner up with software designer if you don't want to pay upfront. You bring the know how of promoting and selling software, he brings his skills.
 
I have one idea that I've been milling over about trying and it should be pretty easy to setup/execute. The problem is yeah I'm having this failure anxiety because I've flopped so much in a year 1/2's time.

It would't make a ton of money but yeah seed money or something to get me started.

Best way to get over failure anxiety is to never look at things as a failure. There's an old saying and it goes something like, an expert is someone who has failed at everything in any field at least once. If you learned something from the experience you never failed, the knowledge you would have gained from that experience will be worth ten fold.

Plus you should always hold your head up high in knowing that it was you who had the balls to give it a shot. Most people in society are sheeple, and they lack the bottle and the balls to do anything like we do.

There won't be any better feeling when you finally drag yourself from the bottom and make a real success from something.

Just remember this quote by Steve Jobs.

.. almost everything – all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
 
Only 4/8 of these webinars are here is this still usable?
Hey man, it is very usable.

Offline marketing is blowing the fuck up, I only have TWO clients, earning me $5000 a month! My city only has a population of like 60 thousand, and theres maybe 5000 businesses in my city. I could get 100 paying me $1000 a month earning $100,000 a month but that is too much work for me. I'm lazy.

There is so much resources for it, it's really easy to get into, you just need to take action immediately.

Offline Marketing Discussions
 
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Hey man, it is very usable.

Offline marketing is blowing the fuck up, I only have TWO clients, earning me $5000 a month! My city only has a population of like 60 thousand, and theres maybe 5000 businesses in my city. I could get 100 paying me $1000 a month earning $100,000 a month but that is too much work for me. I'm lazy.

There is so much resources for it, it's really easy to get into, you just need to take action immediately.

Offline Marketing Discussions

Yeah I was about halfway thru the first video when I found the thread mentioned in the demonoid comments. A lot of people were saying he disappeared halfway thru it and didn't give all the information.

Did you really have to go thru all the stuff he's saying, creating a site, and an ebook, and a mp3, and etc etc or not really?

Was just making sure there was enough information in there to make use of it because the first video is like 2 hours long.
 
I went through something very similar as you. The money at an early age corrupted my mind and I thought I was economically and financially invincible and some sort of business genius. I was wrong.

I hit rock bottom and wanted to get it all back, but didn't have the hunger.. the eye of the tiger needed to hustle for it. What fixed the motivation problem for me was the birth of my son. It lit a fire under my ass and i'm now four times as successful than I ever was I before I hit rock bottom.

You did it before you can do it again. I'm not saying go plant your seed in some random, but just know that it's possible to get it back. The lessons you learned from the first time around will only make you even more successful the second time around.

Making money is the easy part, the hard part is keeping it.
 
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